"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How many times have you watched pornography this week?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ShortTimer
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Edit: Porn, I mean.
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.OK, starting today, NO BEATING THE MEAT! ARRRWWW!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
squirrels
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That seems like a pretty good rhythm for me. Any more is too much, any less and I'd go crazy. LOL
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I am not watching porn anymore because it causes me to whack off and I want a reason to get a girlfriend. Plus a boost of testostorone is a good thing.
And how many times do you watch porn Tactic, crusader of Christains.
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
i actually gave a small laugh or giggle at what you said calling me a crusader of Christians.Originally posted by baseballDJ
I am not watching porn anymore because it causes me to whack off and I want a reason to get a girlfriend. Plus a boost of testostorone is a good thing.
And how many times do you watch porn Tactic, crusader of Christains.
i do no watch pornography, never will and if i do you know what i will do.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
If you are a life guard I don't blame you, since you have to sit on those high-towers all day long with everyone looking at you.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Hmm, never even peeked at it?
i haven't masterbated, watched full-lenghted pornography, stare at girl's body fiercly, or act dirty in months but not long ago.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
That's what I thought. Glad you came out otherwise I would have accused you of being in denial.
chicksrock
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with regards to whacking off....if you prefer doing it to porn...suit yourself....
with regards to frequency of whacking off... try and cut it down. I have read so many posts saying it helps your game....but i was always skeptical....after reading gunwitch I though I would give it a shot
OUTCOME: I feel fvcking horny and will do anything for sex
DOWNSIDE: I can't concentrate on my work either!
but I have read if you control your release for a longer periods of time than just a few days...you can transmute your sexual energy to make you more productive @ your work
Silquee Smoove
Master Don Juan
He goes "Wow" and she is sorta manly-looking.
You can get it off K@z@@
I'm trying to stop watching it myself, simply because it's a waste of time and I'd rather be doing the real thing.
Usually I'll watch random videos off of K@z@@ (careful of the child molestation videos disguised as something else though).
P.S. How come there is no shirt that says "I'd rather be f-ucking"?
You see one for every other "sport".
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I don't enjoy watching prositutes engaged in sexual scenarios. And as far as mainstream porn goes, I can't stand the idea of some sleazy fat cats profitting from my instinctive weaknesses and getting rich off every guy who fails to score with a real woman.
The idea of jerking off to porn is about as appealing to me as scavenging for food from dustbins. It's something you only do when you're desperate.
And for those who think porn is educational, think again. You'll never learn how to please a woman by watching porn videos (aka male fantasies).