"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How many times have you watched pornography this week?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ShortTimer
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Edit: Porn, I mean.
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.OK, starting today, NO BEATING THE MEAT! ARRRWWW!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
squirrels
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That seems like a pretty good rhythm for me. Any more is too much, any less and I'd go crazy. LOL
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I am not watching porn anymore because it causes me to whack off and I want a reason to get a girlfriend. Plus a boost of testostorone is a good thing.
And how many times do you watch porn Tactic, crusader of Christains.
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
i actually gave a small laugh or giggle at what you said calling me a crusader of Christians.Originally posted by baseballDJ
I am not watching porn anymore because it causes me to whack off and I want a reason to get a girlfriend. Plus a boost of testostorone is a good thing.
And how many times do you watch porn Tactic, crusader of Christains.
i do no watch pornography, never will and if i do you know what i will do.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
If you are a life guard I don't blame you, since you have to sit on those high-towers all day long with everyone looking at you.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Hmm, never even peeked at it?
i haven't masterbated, watched full-lenghted pornography, stare at girl's body fiercly, or act dirty in months but not long ago.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
That's what I thought. Glad you came out otherwise I would have accused you of being in denial.
chicksrock
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with regards to whacking off....if you prefer doing it to porn...suit yourself....
with regards to frequency of whacking off... try and cut it down. I have read so many posts saying it helps your game....but i was always skeptical....after reading gunwitch I though I would give it a shot
OUTCOME: I feel fvcking horny and will do anything for sex
DOWNSIDE: I can't concentrate on my work either!
but I have read if you control your release for a longer periods of time than just a few days...you can transmute your sexual energy to make you more productive @ your work
Silquee Smoove
Master Don Juan
He goes "Wow" and she is sorta manly-looking.
You can get it off K@z@@
I'm trying to stop watching it myself, simply because it's a waste of time and I'd rather be doing the real thing.
Usually I'll watch random videos off of K@z@@ (careful of the child molestation videos disguised as something else though).
P.S. How come there is no shirt that says "I'd rather be f-ucking"?
You see one for every other "sport".
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I don't enjoy watching prositutes engaged in sexual scenarios. And as far as mainstream porn goes, I can't stand the idea of some sleazy fat cats profitting from my instinctive weaknesses and getting rich off every guy who fails to score with a real woman.
The idea of jerking off to porn is about as appealing to me as scavenging for food from dustbins. It's something you only do when you're desperate.
And for those who think porn is educational, think again. You'll never learn how to please a woman by watching porn videos (aka male fantasies).