Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
how many rednecks/homophobes here....
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I have a few gay friends, and am patient with them. But, yes, it's called a perversion for a reason. On the bright side, all the more options for us DJs.
PeasantPlayer
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The most surprising part is how very few have spoken up against the extreme bigots that have posted. Perhaps the silent majority disagree? Who knows. But it's definitely a sad state of affairs that has changed my overall perspective on the type of people here.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tictac
Banned
Again, it's an open forum (absent pissing off the mods). So all kinds will be here. I couldn't care any less about sexual orientation.
Changing 'your overall perspective on the type of people here' says a lot more about you than anyone posting. This is not your personal web space, soap box or cage match. It's relatively open and people have their opinions.
If you don't like them, ignore them. I do it all the time.
This is an open forum about Don Juanism and more importantly on self-improvement. Can't stress the term SELF enough. No need to baptise others.
To the contrary, sometimes the ugly truth can heard by listening very closely.
However, I hate the gay culture... I dislike the flamboyancy of it, their pride events which are less about actual pride and more about some absurd fetishization and perversions. I dislike how they obnoxiously promote their sexuality. I dislike the degree of political correctness that they try to promote, which leads to a large-scale loss of free speech. I dislike that simple tolerance of homosexuality is not enough, instead you must give resounding approval and endorsement or elses one is a "redneck" or a "homophobe". Most of all, I dislike the victim mentality I see in 90%+ of homosexual people that I have met.
Don't forgot their faggot parades. There's children that see that sh!t. Unacceptable.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What a joke. You can't even compare black people and gays in the context of this thread.
The issue is trying to brainwash little kid's into accepting this stuff as normal to the point it might makes these kids question their own identity and influence their choices risking them not developing into normal, mentally healthy adults.
Influencing kids like this or gender neutral stuff is degenerate and sinister.
If you think gayness is normal then you must think adults being sexually attracted to small children or animals is normal also.
I never said any thing about taking away their rights you delusional fruit cake.
You sound like a fascist. I bet you wish you could make me and everyone else who disagrees with you either agree with you or silence us. You WISH you could MAKE us.
But you can't and you never will.
You people, are control freak sickos who need to stop trying to force your values on others.
Promotion, not existence, of lbgtq is what's sinister and needs to stop.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Half of gays were born that way, the other half just got sucked into it......HA!
Seriously, though, some of the most feminine ones obviously have some genetic difference. They talk with a lisp. They're good at things like arranging flowers and interior design. And if they get mad enough, they will scratch your eyes out!
My high school gf caught the 'lesbian until graduation' syndrome in college after we broke up and I moved away. I used to come hang out and drink with her dyke gf and her. They took me to their gay bar, and I hung out with a lot of their friends with them when I would come back home from college. That was when gay people were actually counter-culture, and a real minority. They were afraid of getting beaten up or killed. That's why there are gay bars; it's a bar they won't get beat up in. The people I met ran a cross-section of humanity, good and bad. They all liked to drink and get fvcked up. A lot of them were pretty funny too. I heard a lot of f@ggot jokes.
That was in the 90's. Now everything is different. Gays are now a political movement who get on everyone's nerves. Now that they won marriage, which doesn't bother me, the activists still need something to do, so they create million dollar lawsuits over gay wedding cakes and tranny bathrooms.
Desdinova
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I believe there are two types of gay people:
Those who are born gay: These are the ones who are genetically defective. There's something going on in their genes that causes them to have the desire to fvck their own sex.
Those who are gay by choice / bisexual: These are the people who have the desire to try it out or have had gay culture thrust upon them by their environment. Most of the people who fall into this category are women, mainly because women can cause other women satisfying emotional fluctuation.
I am not a homophobe. I believe that everyone deserves to experience companionship. The main thing I'm strongly against is gay couples having children. Don't defy nature. You're gay for a reason: Nature has decided to eliminate your genes from existence.
LiveFreeX
Banned
You are part of the Canadian liberal party aren't you? Go tell JT and his army of retards that Canadian parents have had enough of this sh1t and we are pushing back starting with Manitoba and ending with YOU.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
logicallefty
Moderator
As for the gay thing, I have never been against gays at all. No problems with them. Gay men leave more free women in the pool for me so go for it men, hook up all you want. That being said I do not go for the transgender thing. I draw the line there. I think transgenders need to pick a fvcking side, get surgery, and stay there. None of this flip flopping sex and choosing the men's room one day and the women's the next.. That whole game is pure insanity IMO.
backseatjuan
Banned
Being gay and actively telling people that you are gay is same as being straight and actively telling people that you like your wife fvcking you with a strap on. Now I think we don't need to tell people or teach children about your sexual perversion.
Keep it private. Nobody needs to know that you have some sort of sexual perversion.
LiveFreeX
Banned
Of course because that is the only diversity that matters.
And if course whites being proud or looking out for the interests of their own ethnicity is wrong a bad. But when others to it, totally cool.
I dislike social justice warriors, I think they are a disease. All they do is project their personal insecurities in their deluded notion of making the world a "better" place. They debase and censor others who do not adhere to their brand of "political correctness", thus ensuring complete homogeny of their philosophy. These people are nothing more than autocratic totalitarians, the irony is that they are exactly what they say they are against.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.