“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
how many rednecks/homophobes here....
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I have a few gay friends, and am patient with them. But, yes, it's called a perversion for a reason. On the bright side, all the more options for us DJs.
PeasantPlayer
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The most surprising part is how very few have spoken up against the extreme bigots that have posted. Perhaps the silent majority disagree? Who knows. But it's definitely a sad state of affairs that has changed my overall perspective on the type of people here.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Tictac
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Again, it's an open forum (absent pissing off the mods). So all kinds will be here. I couldn't care any less about sexual orientation.
Changing 'your overall perspective on the type of people here' says a lot more about you than anyone posting. This is not your personal web space, soap box or cage match. It's relatively open and people have their opinions.
If you don't like them, ignore them. I do it all the time.
This is an open forum about Don Juanism and more importantly on self-improvement. Can't stress the term SELF enough. No need to baptise others.
To the contrary, sometimes the ugly truth can heard by listening very closely.
However, I hate the gay culture... I dislike the flamboyancy of it, their pride events which are less about actual pride and more about some absurd fetishization and perversions. I dislike how they obnoxiously promote their sexuality. I dislike the degree of political correctness that they try to promote, which leads to a large-scale loss of free speech. I dislike that simple tolerance of homosexuality is not enough, instead you must give resounding approval and endorsement or elses one is a "redneck" or a "homophobe". Most of all, I dislike the victim mentality I see in 90%+ of homosexual people that I have met.
Don't forgot their faggot parades. There's children that see that sh!t. Unacceptable.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What a joke. You can't even compare black people and gays in the context of this thread.
The issue is trying to brainwash little kid's into accepting this stuff as normal to the point it might makes these kids question their own identity and influence their choices risking them not developing into normal, mentally healthy adults.
Influencing kids like this or gender neutral stuff is degenerate and sinister.
If you think gayness is normal then you must think adults being sexually attracted to small children or animals is normal also.
I never said any thing about taking away their rights you delusional fruit cake.
You sound like a fascist. I bet you wish you could make me and everyone else who disagrees with you either agree with you or silence us. You WISH you could MAKE us.
But you can't and you never will.
You people, are control freak sickos who need to stop trying to force your values on others.
Promotion, not existence, of lbgtq is what's sinister and needs to stop.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Half of gays were born that way, the other half just got sucked into it......HA!
Seriously, though, some of the most feminine ones obviously have some genetic difference. They talk with a lisp. They're good at things like arranging flowers and interior design. And if they get mad enough, they will scratch your eyes out!
My high school gf caught the 'lesbian until graduation' syndrome in college after we broke up and I moved away. I used to come hang out and drink with her dyke gf and her. They took me to their gay bar, and I hung out with a lot of their friends with them when I would come back home from college. That was when gay people were actually counter-culture, and a real minority. They were afraid of getting beaten up or killed. That's why there are gay bars; it's a bar they won't get beat up in. The people I met ran a cross-section of humanity, good and bad. They all liked to drink and get fvcked up. A lot of them were pretty funny too. I heard a lot of f@ggot jokes.
That was in the 90's. Now everything is different. Gays are now a political movement who get on everyone's nerves. Now that they won marriage, which doesn't bother me, the activists still need something to do, so they create million dollar lawsuits over gay wedding cakes and tranny bathrooms.
Desdinova
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I believe there are two types of gay people:
Those who are born gay: These are the ones who are genetically defective. There's something going on in their genes that causes them to have the desire to fvck their own sex.
Those who are gay by choice / bisexual: These are the people who have the desire to try it out or have had gay culture thrust upon them by their environment. Most of the people who fall into this category are women, mainly because women can cause other women satisfying emotional fluctuation.
I am not a homophobe. I believe that everyone deserves to experience companionship. The main thing I'm strongly against is gay couples having children. Don't defy nature. You're gay for a reason: Nature has decided to eliminate your genes from existence.
LiveFreeX
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You are part of the Canadian liberal party aren't you? Go tell JT and his army of retards that Canadian parents have had enough of this sh1t and we are pushing back starting with Manitoba and ending with YOU.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
logicallefty
Moderator
As for the gay thing, I have never been against gays at all. No problems with them. Gay men leave more free women in the pool for me so go for it men, hook up all you want. That being said I do not go for the transgender thing. I draw the line there. I think transgenders need to pick a fvcking side, get surgery, and stay there. None of this flip flopping sex and choosing the men's room one day and the women's the next.. That whole game is pure insanity IMO.
backseatjuan
Banned
Being gay and actively telling people that you are gay is same as being straight and actively telling people that you like your wife fvcking you with a strap on. Now I think we don't need to tell people or teach children about your sexual perversion.
Keep it private. Nobody needs to know that you have some sort of sexual perversion.
LiveFreeX
Banned
Of course because that is the only diversity that matters.
And if course whites being proud or looking out for the interests of their own ethnicity is wrong a bad. But when others to it, totally cool.
I dislike social justice warriors, I think they are a disease. All they do is project their personal insecurities in their deluded notion of making the world a "better" place. They debase and censor others who do not adhere to their brand of "political correctness", thus ensuring complete homogeny of their philosophy. These people are nothing more than autocratic totalitarians, the irony is that they are exactly what they say they are against.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.