"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
how many rednecks/homophobes here....
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I have a few gay friends, and am patient with them. But, yes, it's called a perversion for a reason. On the bright side, all the more options for us DJs.
PeasantPlayer
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The most surprising part is how very few have spoken up against the extreme bigots that have posted. Perhaps the silent majority disagree? Who knows. But it's definitely a sad state of affairs that has changed my overall perspective on the type of people here.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tictac
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Again, it's an open forum (absent pissing off the mods). So all kinds will be here. I couldn't care any less about sexual orientation.
Changing 'your overall perspective on the type of people here' says a lot more about you than anyone posting. This is not your personal web space, soap box or cage match. It's relatively open and people have their opinions.
If you don't like them, ignore them. I do it all the time.
This is an open forum about Don Juanism and more importantly on self-improvement. Can't stress the term SELF enough. No need to baptise others.
To the contrary, sometimes the ugly truth can heard by listening very closely.
However, I hate the gay culture... I dislike the flamboyancy of it, their pride events which are less about actual pride and more about some absurd fetishization and perversions. I dislike how they obnoxiously promote their sexuality. I dislike the degree of political correctness that they try to promote, which leads to a large-scale loss of free speech. I dislike that simple tolerance of homosexuality is not enough, instead you must give resounding approval and endorsement or elses one is a "redneck" or a "homophobe". Most of all, I dislike the victim mentality I see in 90%+ of homosexual people that I have met.
Don't forgot their faggot parades. There's children that see that sh!t. Unacceptable.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What a joke. You can't even compare black people and gays in the context of this thread.
The issue is trying to brainwash little kid's into accepting this stuff as normal to the point it might makes these kids question their own identity and influence their choices risking them not developing into normal, mentally healthy adults.
Influencing kids like this or gender neutral stuff is degenerate and sinister.
If you think gayness is normal then you must think adults being sexually attracted to small children or animals is normal also.
I never said any thing about taking away their rights you delusional fruit cake.
You sound like a fascist. I bet you wish you could make me and everyone else who disagrees with you either agree with you or silence us. You WISH you could MAKE us.
But you can't and you never will.
You people, are control freak sickos who need to stop trying to force your values on others.
Promotion, not existence, of lbgtq is what's sinister and needs to stop.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Half of gays were born that way, the other half just got sucked into it......HA!
Seriously, though, some of the most feminine ones obviously have some genetic difference. They talk with a lisp. They're good at things like arranging flowers and interior design. And if they get mad enough, they will scratch your eyes out!
My high school gf caught the 'lesbian until graduation' syndrome in college after we broke up and I moved away. I used to come hang out and drink with her dyke gf and her. They took me to their gay bar, and I hung out with a lot of their friends with them when I would come back home from college. That was when gay people were actually counter-culture, and a real minority. They were afraid of getting beaten up or killed. That's why there are gay bars; it's a bar they won't get beat up in. The people I met ran a cross-section of humanity, good and bad. They all liked to drink and get fvcked up. A lot of them were pretty funny too. I heard a lot of f@ggot jokes.
That was in the 90's. Now everything is different. Gays are now a political movement who get on everyone's nerves. Now that they won marriage, which doesn't bother me, the activists still need something to do, so they create million dollar lawsuits over gay wedding cakes and tranny bathrooms.
Desdinova
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I believe there are two types of gay people:
Those who are born gay: These are the ones who are genetically defective. There's something going on in their genes that causes them to have the desire to fvck their own sex.
Those who are gay by choice / bisexual: These are the people who have the desire to try it out or have had gay culture thrust upon them by their environment. Most of the people who fall into this category are women, mainly because women can cause other women satisfying emotional fluctuation.
I am not a homophobe. I believe that everyone deserves to experience companionship. The main thing I'm strongly against is gay couples having children. Don't defy nature. You're gay for a reason: Nature has decided to eliminate your genes from existence.
LiveFreeX
Banned
You are part of the Canadian liberal party aren't you? Go tell JT and his army of retards that Canadian parents have had enough of this sh1t and we are pushing back starting with Manitoba and ending with YOU.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
logicallefty
Moderator
As for the gay thing, I have never been against gays at all. No problems with them. Gay men leave more free women in the pool for me so go for it men, hook up all you want. That being said I do not go for the transgender thing. I draw the line there. I think transgenders need to pick a fvcking side, get surgery, and stay there. None of this flip flopping sex and choosing the men's room one day and the women's the next.. That whole game is pure insanity IMO.
backseatjuan
Banned
Being gay and actively telling people that you are gay is same as being straight and actively telling people that you like your wife fvcking you with a strap on. Now I think we don't need to tell people or teach children about your sexual perversion.
Keep it private. Nobody needs to know that you have some sort of sexual perversion.
LiveFreeX
Banned
Of course because that is the only diversity that matters.
And if course whites being proud or looking out for the interests of their own ethnicity is wrong a bad. But when others to it, totally cool.
I dislike social justice warriors, I think they are a disease. All they do is project their personal insecurities in their deluded notion of making the world a "better" place. They debase and censor others who do not adhere to their brand of "political correctness", thus ensuring complete homogeny of their philosophy. These people are nothing more than autocratic totalitarians, the irony is that they are exactly what they say they are against.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.