"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No one is born gay. It's a mental disorder. Something is wrong with there brains...
I have a few gay friends, and am patient with them. But, yes, it's called a perversion for a reason. On the bright side, all the more options for us DJs.
 

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Also by your logic pedophiles who're attracted to prepubescent children are totally natural and normal.
 

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Yeah while this thread is kind of OT, it is still interesting to note how many people on this site openly bash gays and promote intolerance. The level of ignorance and fear mongering is honestly pathetic. Gotta love the ones claiming not to hate gays, but insist on taking theirs rights and promoting intolerance of them. Right. Replace "gays" with "blacks" in some of the posts and you'll see quite an eerie connection. Did we go back in time half a century?

The most surprising part is how very few have spoken up against the extreme bigots that have posted. Perhaps the silent majority disagree? Who knows. But it's definitely a sad state of affairs that has changed my overall perspective on the type of people here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah while this thread is kind of OT, it is still interesting to note how many people on this site openly bash gays and promote intolerance. The level of ignorance and fear mongering is honestly pathetic. Gotta love the ones claiming not to hate gays, but insist on taking theirs rights and promoting intolerance of them. Right. Replace "gays" with "blacks" in some of the posts and you'll see quite an eerie connection. Did we go back in time half a century?

The most surprising part is how very few have spoken up against the extreme bigots that have posted. Perhaps the silent majority disagree? Who knows. But it's definitely a sad state of affairs that has changed my overall perspective on the type of people here.
Again, it's an open forum (absent pissing off the mods). So all kinds will be here. I couldn't care any less about sexual orientation.

Changing 'your overall perspective on the type of people here' says a lot more about you than anyone posting. This is not your personal web space, soap box or cage match. It's relatively open and people have their opinions.

If you don't like them, ignore them. I do it all the time.
 

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Being homosexual is no threat to me. It absolutely doesn't matter to me if it's genetic, a mental disorder or just a belief (although I tend to accept the first as truth). Live and let live.

This is an open forum about Don Juanism and more importantly on self-improvement. Can't stress the term SELF enough. No need to baptise others.
 

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I could care less what two men or women want to do to each other. It is their personal business. Live and let live as others have said...

However, I hate the gay culture... I dislike the flamboyancy of it, their pride events which are less about actual pride and more about some absurd fetishization and perversions. I dislike how they obnoxiously promote their sexuality. I dislike the degree of political correctness that they try to promote, which leads to a large-scale loss of free speech. I dislike that simple tolerance of homosexuality is not enough, instead you must give resounding approval and endorsement or elses one is a "redneck" or a "homophobe". Most of all, I dislike the victim mentality I see in 90%+ of homosexual people that I have met.
 

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I could care less what two men or women want to do to each other. It is their personal business. Live and let live as others have said...

However, I hate the gay culture... I dislike the flamboyancy of it, their pride events which are less about actual pride and more about some absurd fetishization and perversions. I dislike how they obnoxiously promote their sexuality. I dislike the degree of political correctness that they try to promote, which leads to a large-scale loss of free speech. I dislike that simple tolerance of homosexuality is not enough, instead you must give resounding approval and endorsement or elses one is a "redneck" or a "homophobe". Most of all, I dislike the victim mentality I see in 90%+ of homosexual people that I have met.
Don't forgot their faggot parades. There's children that see that sh!t. Unacceptable.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah while this thread is kind of OT, it is still interesting to note how many people on this site openly bash gays and promote intolerance. The level of ignorance and fear mongering is honestly pathetic. Gotta love the ones claiming not to hate gays, but insist on taking theirs rights and promoting intolerance of them. Right. Replace "gays" with "blacks" in some of the posts and you'll see quite an eerie connection. Did we go back in time half a century?

The most surprising part is how very few have spoken up against the extreme bigots that have posted. Perhaps the silent majority disagree? Who knows. But it's definitely a sad state of affairs that has changed my overall perspective on the type of people here.
What a joke. You can't even compare black people and gays in the context of this thread.

The issue is trying to brainwash little kid's into accepting this stuff as normal to the point it might makes these kids question their own identity and influence their choices risking them not developing into normal, mentally healthy adults.

Influencing kids like this or gender neutral stuff is degenerate and sinister.

If you think gayness is normal then you must think adults being sexually attracted to small children or animals is normal also.

I never said any thing about taking away their rights you delusional fruit cake.

You sound like a fascist. I bet you wish you could make me and everyone else who disagrees with you either agree with you or silence us. You WISH you could MAKE us.

But you can't and you never will.

You people, are control freak sickos who need to stop trying to force your values on others.
Promotion, not existence, of lbgtq is what's sinister and needs to stop.
 
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My neck is redder than anyone here.

Half of gays were born that way, the other half just got sucked into it......HA!

Seriously, though, some of the most feminine ones obviously have some genetic difference. They talk with a lisp. They're good at things like arranging flowers and interior design. And if they get mad enough, they will scratch your eyes out!

My high school gf caught the 'lesbian until graduation' syndrome in college after we broke up and I moved away. I used to come hang out and drink with her dyke gf and her. They took me to their gay bar, and I hung out with a lot of their friends with them when I would come back home from college. That was when gay people were actually counter-culture, and a real minority. They were afraid of getting beaten up or killed. That's why there are gay bars; it's a bar they won't get beat up in. The people I met ran a cross-section of humanity, good and bad. They all liked to drink and get fvcked up. A lot of them were pretty funny too. I heard a lot of f@ggot jokes.

That was in the 90's. Now everything is different. Gays are now a political movement who get on everyone's nerves. Now that they won marriage, which doesn't bother me, the activists still need something to do, so they create million dollar lawsuits over gay wedding cakes and tranny bathrooms.
 

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Yes, do you understand the concept of nature?
I believe there are two types of gay people:

Those who are born gay: These are the ones who are genetically defective. There's something going on in their genes that causes them to have the desire to fvck their own sex.

Those who are gay by choice / bisexual: These are the people who have the desire to try it out or have had gay culture thrust upon them by their environment. Most of the people who fall into this category are women, mainly because women can cause other women satisfying emotional fluctuation.

I am not a homophobe. I believe that everyone deserves to experience companionship. The main thing I'm strongly against is gay couples having children. Don't defy nature. You're gay for a reason: Nature has decided to eliminate your genes from existence.
 

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Certainly an eye opener, to think that educating kids about "individuality and differences" is paramount to being evil and sinister.
You are part of the Canadian liberal party aren't you? Go tell JT and his army of retards that Canadian parents have had enough of this sh1t and we are pushing back starting with Manitoba and ending with YOU.
 

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Let nature take its course and accept diversity
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I am a redneck on most folks' scales. I grew up with some real hill billies, the ones you see on reality shows. I stepped back a few knotches from my roots but am still proud of them. I do a lot of your stereotypical redneck stuff. But I also go my own way on a few things. I listen to rap and hip hop, hate country music for the most part. I live in a $250k house in a neighborhood full of other "rednecks with paychecks" as we self call ourselves. My house is easiest to find because of my wind chime hanging on the front porch that is made out of toilet parts. Plus the outhouse in my yard. Some folks say they have trouble figuring me out. My answer is "good".

As for the gay thing, I have never been against gays at all. No problems with them. Gay men leave more free women in the pool for me so go for it men, hook up all you want. That being said I do not go for the transgender thing. I draw the line there. I think transgenders need to pick a fvcking side, get surgery, and stay there. None of this flip flopping sex and choosing the men's room one day and the women's the next.. That whole game is pure insanity IMO.
 

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I'm with president Putin on this issue. Your sexual perversions is something for you to keep private, no need to display your sexual perversions in public, or propagandize and advertise them.

Being gay and actively telling people that you are gay is same as being straight and actively telling people that you like your wife fvcking you with a strap on. Now I think we don't need to tell people or teach children about your sexual perversion.

Keep it private. Nobody needs to know that you have some sort of sexual perversion.
 

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Can we just close this social justice warrior thread? Some liberal neo-progressive zealot makes this thread for no reason other than to berate people by calling people "redneck" who disagree with him. This sanctimonious vigilante cultural fascist posts this tirade in a men's advice and Don Juan forum which has nothing to do with this topic all, just to wage war for his own narrow perspective of morality. Furthermore, this person like all SJWs does not even actually debate and have a respectful exchange of opinions and ideas, he simply resorts ad-hominem personal attacks and ridiculing people by calling them a "redneck" demeaning people to shut them down.

I dislike social justice warriors, I think they are a disease. All they do is project their personal insecurities in their deluded notion of making the world a "better" place. They debase and censor others who do not adhere to their brand of "political correctness", thus ensuring complete homogeny of their philosophy. These people are nothing more than autocratic totalitarians, the irony is that they are exactly what they say they are against.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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