"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
how many rednecks/homophobes here....
- Thread starter Aryan Prince
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I have a few gay friends, and am patient with them. But, yes, it's called a perversion for a reason. On the bright side, all the more options for us DJs.
PeasantPlayer
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The most surprising part is how very few have spoken up against the extreme bigots that have posted. Perhaps the silent majority disagree? Who knows. But it's definitely a sad state of affairs that has changed my overall perspective on the type of people here.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Tictac
Banned
Again, it's an open forum (absent pissing off the mods). So all kinds will be here. I couldn't care any less about sexual orientation.
Changing 'your overall perspective on the type of people here' says a lot more about you than anyone posting. This is not your personal web space, soap box or cage match. It's relatively open and people have their opinions.
If you don't like them, ignore them. I do it all the time.
This is an open forum about Don Juanism and more importantly on self-improvement. Can't stress the term SELF enough. No need to baptise others.
To the contrary, sometimes the ugly truth can heard by listening very closely.
However, I hate the gay culture... I dislike the flamboyancy of it, their pride events which are less about actual pride and more about some absurd fetishization and perversions. I dislike how they obnoxiously promote their sexuality. I dislike the degree of political correctness that they try to promote, which leads to a large-scale loss of free speech. I dislike that simple tolerance of homosexuality is not enough, instead you must give resounding approval and endorsement or elses one is a "redneck" or a "homophobe". Most of all, I dislike the victim mentality I see in 90%+ of homosexual people that I have met.
Don't forgot their faggot parades. There's children that see that sh!t. Unacceptable.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What a joke. You can't even compare black people and gays in the context of this thread.
The issue is trying to brainwash little kid's into accepting this stuff as normal to the point it might makes these kids question their own identity and influence their choices risking them not developing into normal, mentally healthy adults.
Influencing kids like this or gender neutral stuff is degenerate and sinister.
If you think gayness is normal then you must think adults being sexually attracted to small children or animals is normal also.
I never said any thing about taking away their rights you delusional fruit cake.
You sound like a fascist. I bet you wish you could make me and everyone else who disagrees with you either agree with you or silence us. You WISH you could MAKE us.
But you can't and you never will.
You people, are control freak sickos who need to stop trying to force your values on others.
Promotion, not existence, of lbgtq is what's sinister and needs to stop.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Half of gays were born that way, the other half just got sucked into it......HA!
Seriously, though, some of the most feminine ones obviously have some genetic difference. They talk with a lisp. They're good at things like arranging flowers and interior design. And if they get mad enough, they will scratch your eyes out!
My high school gf caught the 'lesbian until graduation' syndrome in college after we broke up and I moved away. I used to come hang out and drink with her dyke gf and her. They took me to their gay bar, and I hung out with a lot of their friends with them when I would come back home from college. That was when gay people were actually counter-culture, and a real minority. They were afraid of getting beaten up or killed. That's why there are gay bars; it's a bar they won't get beat up in. The people I met ran a cross-section of humanity, good and bad. They all liked to drink and get fvcked up. A lot of them were pretty funny too. I heard a lot of f@ggot jokes.
That was in the 90's. Now everything is different. Gays are now a political movement who get on everyone's nerves. Now that they won marriage, which doesn't bother me, the activists still need something to do, so they create million dollar lawsuits over gay wedding cakes and tranny bathrooms.
Desdinova
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I believe there are two types of gay people:
Those who are born gay: These are the ones who are genetically defective. There's something going on in their genes that causes them to have the desire to fvck their own sex.
Those who are gay by choice / bisexual: These are the people who have the desire to try it out or have had gay culture thrust upon them by their environment. Most of the people who fall into this category are women, mainly because women can cause other women satisfying emotional fluctuation.
I am not a homophobe. I believe that everyone deserves to experience companionship. The main thing I'm strongly against is gay couples having children. Don't defy nature. You're gay for a reason: Nature has decided to eliminate your genes from existence.
LiveFreeX
Banned
You are part of the Canadian liberal party aren't you? Go tell JT and his army of retards that Canadian parents have had enough of this sh1t and we are pushing back starting with Manitoba and ending with YOU.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
logicallefty
Moderator
As for the gay thing, I have never been against gays at all. No problems with them. Gay men leave more free women in the pool for me so go for it men, hook up all you want. That being said I do not go for the transgender thing. I draw the line there. I think transgenders need to pick a fvcking side, get surgery, and stay there. None of this flip flopping sex and choosing the men's room one day and the women's the next.. That whole game is pure insanity IMO.
backseatjuan
Banned
Being gay and actively telling people that you are gay is same as being straight and actively telling people that you like your wife fvcking you with a strap on. Now I think we don't need to tell people or teach children about your sexual perversion.
Keep it private. Nobody needs to know that you have some sort of sexual perversion.
LiveFreeX
Banned
Of course because that is the only diversity that matters.
And if course whites being proud or looking out for the interests of their own ethnicity is wrong a bad. But when others to it, totally cool.
I dislike social justice warriors, I think they are a disease. All they do is project their personal insecurities in their deluded notion of making the world a "better" place. They debase and censor others who do not adhere to their brand of "political correctness", thus ensuring complete homogeny of their philosophy. These people are nothing more than autocratic totalitarians, the irony is that they are exactly what they say they are against.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.