Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm from Toronto as well. What is your opinion of dating in this city?evan12 said:I live In Toronto , and here is the report of how is Toronto women look like
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201442&highlight=toronto
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How far west? BC in general is MARGINALLY better than Toronto.Mauser96 said:I am in western Canada, and although the women here sound much better than in Toronto, I DO see the sense of entitlement in the younger ones here. But I see it in that whole age group, say under 25 years old. The world owes them a living.
Doesn't seem to matter too much in Toronto. Women here more or less dislike/distrust men equally. They're fair in that regard, I will give them that. :crackup:JackRobin said:to british and canadian brahs
other than white men, what other kind of men do good in your area?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
you cant settle with Toronto woman unless you are submissve man or you will spend the rest of life in battle of who is the boss .It sucks as a normal, successful guy in this city. You have to settle well below your level to get any action.
Oh no they dont!! lol. They love it as much as any other types. Western women are the same everywhere...doesn't matter if it's small town AB, SK or NYC.evan12 said:my friend told me in saskatchewan girls stay virgins untill marriage not sure how this info accurate
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
evan12 said:I live In Toronto , and here is the report of how is Toronto women look like
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201442&highlight=toronto
Correct , Canada has a lot of blondes women , in small towns you can see average guys with zero game married with young nice blondes , in big city like Toronto , you will meet a lot of decedent men with decent jobs but singles or dating some 5 or BBW .Fatal Jay said:I always hear tonronto got the best looking women, even better then women in the states
I have heard it from several people
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.