Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm from Toronto as well. What is your opinion of dating in this city?evan12 said:I live In Toronto , and here is the report of how is Toronto women look like
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201442&highlight=toronto
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How far west? BC in general is MARGINALLY better than Toronto.Mauser96 said:I am in western Canada, and although the women here sound much better than in Toronto, I DO see the sense of entitlement in the younger ones here. But I see it in that whole age group, say under 25 years old. The world owes them a living.
Doesn't seem to matter too much in Toronto. Women here more or less dislike/distrust men equally. They're fair in that regard, I will give them that. :crackup:JackRobin said:to british and canadian brahs
other than white men, what other kind of men do good in your area?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
you cant settle with Toronto woman unless you are submissve man or you will spend the rest of life in battle of who is the boss .It sucks as a normal, successful guy in this city. You have to settle well below your level to get any action.
Oh no they dont!! lol. They love it as much as any other types. Western women are the same everywhere...doesn't matter if it's small town AB, SK or NYC.evan12 said:my friend told me in saskatchewan girls stay virgins untill marriage not sure how this info accurate
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
evan12 said:I live In Toronto , and here is the report of how is Toronto women look like
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201442&highlight=toronto
Correct , Canada has a lot of blondes women , in small towns you can see average guys with zero game married with young nice blondes , in big city like Toronto , you will meet a lot of decedent men with decent jobs but singles or dating some 5 or BBW .Fatal Jay said:I always hear tonronto got the best looking women, even better then women in the states
I have heard it from several people
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.