She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm from Toronto as well. What is your opinion of dating in this city?evan12 said:I live In Toronto , and here is the report of how is Toronto women look like
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201442&highlight=toronto
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How far west? BC in general is MARGINALLY better than Toronto.Mauser96 said:I am in western Canada, and although the women here sound much better than in Toronto, I DO see the sense of entitlement in the younger ones here. But I see it in that whole age group, say under 25 years old. The world owes them a living.
Doesn't seem to matter too much in Toronto. Women here more or less dislike/distrust men equally. They're fair in that regard, I will give them that. :crackup:JackRobin said:to british and canadian brahs
other than white men, what other kind of men do good in your area?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
you cant settle with Toronto woman unless you are submissve man or you will spend the rest of life in battle of who is the boss .It sucks as a normal, successful guy in this city. You have to settle well below your level to get any action.
Oh no they dont!! lol. They love it as much as any other types. Western women are the same everywhere...doesn't matter if it's small town AB, SK or NYC.evan12 said:my friend told me in saskatchewan girls stay virgins untill marriage not sure how this info accurate
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
evan12 said:I live In Toronto , and here is the report of how is Toronto women look like
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201442&highlight=toronto
Correct , Canada has a lot of blondes women , in small towns you can see average guys with zero game married with young nice blondes , in big city like Toronto , you will meet a lot of decedent men with decent jobs but singles or dating some 5 or BBW .Fatal Jay said:I always hear tonronto got the best looking women, even better then women in the states
I have heard it from several people
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.