Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'm from Toronto as well. What is your opinion of dating in this city?evan12 said:I live In Toronto , and here is the report of how is Toronto women look like
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201442&highlight=toronto
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How far west? BC in general is MARGINALLY better than Toronto.Mauser96 said:I am in western Canada, and although the women here sound much better than in Toronto, I DO see the sense of entitlement in the younger ones here. But I see it in that whole age group, say under 25 years old. The world owes them a living.
Doesn't seem to matter too much in Toronto. Women here more or less dislike/distrust men equally. They're fair in that regard, I will give them that. :crackup:JackRobin said:to british and canadian brahs
other than white men, what other kind of men do good in your area?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
you cant settle with Toronto woman unless you are submissve man or you will spend the rest of life in battle of who is the boss .It sucks as a normal, successful guy in this city. You have to settle well below your level to get any action.
Oh no they dont!! lol. They love it as much as any other types. Western women are the same everywhere...doesn't matter if it's small town AB, SK or NYC.evan12 said:my friend told me in saskatchewan girls stay virgins untill marriage not sure how this info accurate
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
evan12 said:I live In Toronto , and here is the report of how is Toronto women look like
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201442&highlight=toronto
Correct , Canada has a lot of blondes women , in small towns you can see average guys with zero game married with young nice blondes , in big city like Toronto , you will meet a lot of decedent men with decent jobs but singles or dating some 5 or BBW .Fatal Jay said:I always hear tonronto got the best looking women, even better then women in the states
I have heard it from several people
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.