I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'm from Toronto as well. What is your opinion of dating in this city?evan12 said:I live In Toronto , and here is the report of how is Toronto women look like
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201442&highlight=toronto
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How far west? BC in general is MARGINALLY better than Toronto.Mauser96 said:I am in western Canada, and although the women here sound much better than in Toronto, I DO see the sense of entitlement in the younger ones here. But I see it in that whole age group, say under 25 years old. The world owes them a living.
Doesn't seem to matter too much in Toronto. Women here more or less dislike/distrust men equally. They're fair in that regard, I will give them that. :crackup:JackRobin said:to british and canadian brahs
other than white men, what other kind of men do good in your area?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
you cant settle with Toronto woman unless you are submissve man or you will spend the rest of life in battle of who is the boss .It sucks as a normal, successful guy in this city. You have to settle well below your level to get any action.
Oh no they dont!! lol. They love it as much as any other types. Western women are the same everywhere...doesn't matter if it's small town AB, SK or NYC.evan12 said:my friend told me in saskatchewan girls stay virgins untill marriage not sure how this info accurate
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
evan12 said:I live In Toronto , and here is the report of how is Toronto women look like
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201442&highlight=toronto
Correct , Canada has a lot of blondes women , in small towns you can see average guys with zero game married with young nice blondes , in big city like Toronto , you will meet a lot of decedent men with decent jobs but singles or dating some 5 or BBW .Fatal Jay said:I always hear tonronto got the best looking women, even better then women in the states
I have heard it from several people
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.