cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
No, I don't.
That's why I'm not in an LTR. But when I am, no, I don't fuck around.
That's why I'm not in an LTR. But when I am, no, I don't fuck around.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How many of You cheat in LTR ?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
BG the HB Tamer
Don Juan
I don't. Ever.
Colinski282
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You sound insecure
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Derek doesn't cheat.
Because Derek is not a little boy anymore.
Derek is a man.
Because Derek is not a little boy anymore.
Derek is a man.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Re: How many of You cheat in LTR ?
Well, I'm 100% sure you'd be wrong, because I am in one. Again, go jump in front of a train.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
LeviathanIYG
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LTR is about being exclusive
What is it about the word exclusive that you do not understand?
And would you think it's cool for your GF to f*ck another guy?
What is it about the word exclusive that you do not understand?
And would you think it's cool for your GF to f*ck another guy?
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
This is all getting a little heated. It shows difrent people have diffrent morals. Personally I dont judge others on whether they cheat or not. (by that i mean i have slept with girls who are in LTR and it doesnt affect me.) However when i have been in a LTR I def dont cheat.
ICaughtFire
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no i would never cheat in an exclusive ltr, i have something called loyalty, commitment and passion which you probably lack
Monkey
Master Don Juan
People who cheat are the scum of the earth and a waste of MY oxygen.
As another poster suggested - yes, please go jump in front of a train.
As another poster suggested - yes, please go jump in front of a train.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
LeviathanIYG
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Would you be ok with her cheating?
Apollo_Jordan
Don Juan
I kinda buy into the idea of that a guy needs multiple girls and a girl needs just one guy. Call me primitive. Noone is wrong we all just have a different mindset
look at king henry, how many wives did he have? I do think Man should be with more than one Woman but it looks like things have changed now huh.
Saying this i have never cheated with my two ex's and never intend to in the future. Loser **** in my opinion.
Saying this i have never cheated with my two ex's and never intend to in the future. Loser **** in my opinion.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
Cheating is rediculous.
The only time I ever did it was with my ex-ex (the ex GF before the last one). She fucked around on first, so I nailed both of her cousins in the same day (one at the river all drunk, then the other later at my uncle's house), managed to bang her best friend in the same week, and then hemmed up several more in a two week period from then on when I was shitfaced at the bar and didn't care. And that was back when I was 'AFC', or whatever the overused acronym of the week is.
In the end, all it did for me was make me feel guilty. Yeah, I got my pecker wet.....but I still overstepped. I shoulda dumped the sorry ass chick first, because it was my obligations and morals as a man that I compromised.
And some players will tell you that doesn't matter, but it's always mattered to me.
I'm not with anyone now, so I can do whatever the hell I want. And I do. I could put in FR's until some of you fucker's eyes bleed....and I'm just waiting for some asshead fool to call me a n00b, like they know, LOL.....and that's fine with me, say whatever ya want, but when your with somebody, it's different.
Point is, it's a bad thing. People do stupid things when emotions prevail.
If your in a relationship, chances are you feel a certain way about that chick your with. There's an unwritten law that even though your not married, you don't do that with another person. If you step over that invisible line with somebody else....what are you doing?
Why be in that position?
In the end, both people end up burned and nobody wins.
/my0.02
The only time I ever did it was with my ex-ex (the ex GF before the last one). She fucked around on first, so I nailed both of her cousins in the same day (one at the river all drunk, then the other later at my uncle's house), managed to bang her best friend in the same week, and then hemmed up several more in a two week period from then on when I was shitfaced at the bar and didn't care. And that was back when I was 'AFC', or whatever the overused acronym of the week is.
In the end, all it did for me was make me feel guilty. Yeah, I got my pecker wet.....but I still overstepped. I shoulda dumped the sorry ass chick first, because it was my obligations and morals as a man that I compromised.
And some players will tell you that doesn't matter, but it's always mattered to me.
I'm not with anyone now, so I can do whatever the hell I want. And I do. I could put in FR's until some of you fucker's eyes bleed....and I'm just waiting for some asshead fool to call me a n00b, like they know, LOL.....and that's fine with me, say whatever ya want, but when your with somebody, it's different.
Point is, it's a bad thing. People do stupid things when emotions prevail.
If your in a relationship, chances are you feel a certain way about that chick your with. There's an unwritten law that even though your not married, you don't do that with another person. If you step over that invisible line with somebody else....what are you doing?
Why be in that position?
In the end, both people end up burned and nobody wins.
/my0.02
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Henry VIII was remembered as a fat king who was abit of a bastard. Not a good example.
Nah... I don't do it... sh!t is just wrong to my integrity/heart as a man.
If I'm in a LTR... then its w. some1 special that I care about. I'm not tryin to dis that... it would only be hurting myself.
Anyways... besides that.
I feel theres nothing wrong w. waxing multiple chickx, but to not be upfront about who you are, and what your about... is shady. I respect myself, and wouldn't want any1 to do me wrong like that... so naturally I got to return the energy/respect.
If you want to wax other chix... cool, set that frame from the getgo (like some1 said earlier). Standing on your truth, Thats a man.
SuaveOn'
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If I'm in a LTR... then its w. some1 special that I care about. I'm not tryin to dis that... it would only be hurting myself.
Anyways... besides that.
I feel theres nothing wrong w. waxing multiple chickx, but to not be upfront about who you are, and what your about... is shady. I respect myself, and wouldn't want any1 to do me wrong like that... so naturally I got to return the energy/respect.
If you want to wax other chix... cool, set that frame from the getgo (like some1 said earlier). Standing on your truth, Thats a man.
SuaveOn'
-DarkLight-
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Then set up an honest MLTR and don't tell one you're gonna be exclusive. It's that easy.
Chillisauce
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As a part-time train driver i have this to say, no more jumpings please 
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Hang yourselves or something, alot of my colleges have had jumpers put them in therapy. How would you feel if you were driving along and some guy got blood and brains all over your car.
.Hang yourselves or something, alot of my colleges have had jumpers put them in therapy. How would you feel if you were driving along and some guy got blood and brains all over your car.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.