cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
No, I don't.
That's why I'm not in an LTR. But when I am, no, I don't fuck around.
That's why I'm not in an LTR. But when I am, no, I don't fuck around.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You sound insecureOriginally posted by MightyMate
I used not ot cheat, But when LTR was ending i was lkie 'damn i could have those girls and didnt.. What now?'. SO now, when my girl pisses me off i always cheat. I dont do that when its fine between us, but if she pisses me off more than 2 days in a row i cheat. That sounds silly but it helps our LTR because im getting less stressed.
Well, I'm 100% sure you'd be wrong, because I am in one. Again, go jump in front of a train.Originally posted by MightyMate
Im 100% sure You are not in LTR. Get a life!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This is all getting a little heated. It shows difrent people have diffrent morals. Personally I dont judge others on whether they cheat or not. (by that i mean i have slept with girls who are in LTR and it doesnt affect me.) However when i have been in a LTR I def dont cheat.Originally posted by MightyMate
I do. What about You ?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
:crackup: Please, go jump in front of a train.Originally posted by MetalFortress
Well, I'm 100% sure you'd be wrong, because I am in one. Again, go jump in front of a train.
Yes.People who cheat are the scum of the earth and a waste of MY oxygen.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Henry VIII was remembered as a fat king who was abit of a bastard. Not a good example.Originally posted by dannyc
look at king henry, how many wives did he have? I do think Man should be with more than one Woman but it looks like things have changed now huh.
Saying this i have never cheated with my two ex's and never intend to in the future. Loser **** in my opinion.
Then set up an honest MLTR and don't tell one you're gonna be exclusive. It's that easy.Originally posted by Apollo_Jordan
I kinda buy into the idea of that a guy needs multiple girls and a girl needs just one guy. Call me primitive. Noone is wrong we all just have a different mindset
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.