cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
No, I don't.
That's why I'm not in an LTR. But when I am, no, I don't fuck around.
That's why I'm not in an LTR. But when I am, no, I don't fuck around.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How many of You cheat in LTR ?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BG the HB Tamer
Don Juan
I don't. Ever.
Colinski282
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You sound insecure
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Derek doesn't cheat.
Because Derek is not a little boy anymore.
Derek is a man.
Because Derek is not a little boy anymore.
Derek is a man.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Re: How many of You cheat in LTR ?
Well, I'm 100% sure you'd be wrong, because I am in one. Again, go jump in front of a train.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LeviathanIYG
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LTR is about being exclusive
What is it about the word exclusive that you do not understand?
And would you think it's cool for your GF to f*ck another guy?
What is it about the word exclusive that you do not understand?
And would you think it's cool for your GF to f*ck another guy?
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
This is all getting a little heated. It shows difrent people have diffrent morals. Personally I dont judge others on whether they cheat or not. (by that i mean i have slept with girls who are in LTR and it doesnt affect me.) However when i have been in a LTR I def dont cheat.
ICaughtFire
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no i would never cheat in an exclusive ltr, i have something called loyalty, commitment and passion which you probably lack
Monkey
Master Don Juan
People who cheat are the scum of the earth and a waste of MY oxygen.
As another poster suggested - yes, please go jump in front of a train.
As another poster suggested - yes, please go jump in front of a train.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LeviathanIYG
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Would you be ok with her cheating?
Apollo_Jordan
Don Juan
I kinda buy into the idea of that a guy needs multiple girls and a girl needs just one guy. Call me primitive. Noone is wrong we all just have a different mindset
look at king henry, how many wives did he have? I do think Man should be with more than one Woman but it looks like things have changed now huh.
Saying this i have never cheated with my two ex's and never intend to in the future. Loser **** in my opinion.
Saying this i have never cheated with my two ex's and never intend to in the future. Loser **** in my opinion.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
Cheating is rediculous.
The only time I ever did it was with my ex-ex (the ex GF before the last one). She fucked around on first, so I nailed both of her cousins in the same day (one at the river all drunk, then the other later at my uncle's house), managed to bang her best friend in the same week, and then hemmed up several more in a two week period from then on when I was shitfaced at the bar and didn't care. And that was back when I was 'AFC', or whatever the overused acronym of the week is.
In the end, all it did for me was make me feel guilty. Yeah, I got my pecker wet.....but I still overstepped. I shoulda dumped the sorry ass chick first, because it was my obligations and morals as a man that I compromised.
And some players will tell you that doesn't matter, but it's always mattered to me.
I'm not with anyone now, so I can do whatever the hell I want. And I do. I could put in FR's until some of you fucker's eyes bleed....and I'm just waiting for some asshead fool to call me a n00b, like they know, LOL.....and that's fine with me, say whatever ya want, but when your with somebody, it's different.
Point is, it's a bad thing. People do stupid things when emotions prevail.
If your in a relationship, chances are you feel a certain way about that chick your with. There's an unwritten law that even though your not married, you don't do that with another person. If you step over that invisible line with somebody else....what are you doing?
Why be in that position?
In the end, both people end up burned and nobody wins.
/my0.02
The only time I ever did it was with my ex-ex (the ex GF before the last one). She fucked around on first, so I nailed both of her cousins in the same day (one at the river all drunk, then the other later at my uncle's house), managed to bang her best friend in the same week, and then hemmed up several more in a two week period from then on when I was shitfaced at the bar and didn't care. And that was back when I was 'AFC', or whatever the overused acronym of the week is.
In the end, all it did for me was make me feel guilty. Yeah, I got my pecker wet.....but I still overstepped. I shoulda dumped the sorry ass chick first, because it was my obligations and morals as a man that I compromised.
And some players will tell you that doesn't matter, but it's always mattered to me.
I'm not with anyone now, so I can do whatever the hell I want. And I do. I could put in FR's until some of you fucker's eyes bleed....and I'm just waiting for some asshead fool to call me a n00b, like they know, LOL.....and that's fine with me, say whatever ya want, but when your with somebody, it's different.
Point is, it's a bad thing. People do stupid things when emotions prevail.
If your in a relationship, chances are you feel a certain way about that chick your with. There's an unwritten law that even though your not married, you don't do that with another person. If you step over that invisible line with somebody else....what are you doing?
Why be in that position?
In the end, both people end up burned and nobody wins.
/my0.02
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Henry VIII was remembered as a fat king who was abit of a bastard. Not a good example.
Nah... I don't do it... sh!t is just wrong to my integrity/heart as a man.
If I'm in a LTR... then its w. some1 special that I care about. I'm not tryin to dis that... it would only be hurting myself.
Anyways... besides that.
I feel theres nothing wrong w. waxing multiple chickx, but to not be upfront about who you are, and what your about... is shady. I respect myself, and wouldn't want any1 to do me wrong like that... so naturally I got to return the energy/respect.
If you want to wax other chix... cool, set that frame from the getgo (like some1 said earlier). Standing on your truth, Thats a man.
SuaveOn'
-DarkLight-
If I'm in a LTR... then its w. some1 special that I care about. I'm not tryin to dis that... it would only be hurting myself.
Anyways... besides that.
I feel theres nothing wrong w. waxing multiple chickx, but to not be upfront about who you are, and what your about... is shady. I respect myself, and wouldn't want any1 to do me wrong like that... so naturally I got to return the energy/respect.
If you want to wax other chix... cool, set that frame from the getgo (like some1 said earlier). Standing on your truth, Thats a man.
SuaveOn'
-DarkLight-
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Then set up an honest MLTR and don't tell one you're gonna be exclusive. It's that easy.
Chillisauce
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As a part-time train driver i have this to say, no more jumpings please 
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Hang yourselves or something, alot of my colleges have had jumpers put them in therapy. How would you feel if you were driving along and some guy got blood and brains all over your car.
.Hang yourselves or something, alot of my colleges have had jumpers put them in therapy. How would you feel if you were driving along and some guy got blood and brains all over your car.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.