“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How many of You cheat in LTR ?

cactus3178

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No, I don't.


That's why I'm not in an LTR. But when I am, no, I don't fuck around.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Colinski282

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Originally posted by MightyMate
I used not ot cheat, But when LTR was ending i was lkie 'damn i could have those girls and didnt.. What now?'. SO now, when my girl pisses me off i always cheat. I dont do that when its fine between us, but if she pisses me off more than 2 days in a row i cheat. That sounds silly but it helps our LTR because im getting less stressed.
You sound insecure
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LeviathanIYG

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LTR is about being exclusive

What is it about the word exclusive that you do not understand?

And would you think it's cool for your GF to f*ck another guy?
 

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Originally posted by MightyMate
I do. What about You ?
This is all getting a little heated. It shows difrent people have diffrent morals. Personally I dont judge others on whether they cheat or not. (by that i mean i have slept with girls who are in LTR and it doesnt affect me.) However when i have been in a LTR I def dont cheat.
 

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no i would never cheat in an exclusive ltr, i have something called loyalty, commitment and passion which you probably lack
 

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There is not anything wrong with a appetizer from the main course. I personally do not,but who am I to even comment about others actions.
 

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People who cheat are the scum of the earth and a waste of MY oxygen.


As another poster suggested - yes, please go jump in front of a train.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: How many of You cheat in LTR ?

Originally posted by MetalFortress
Well, I'm 100% sure you'd be wrong, because I am in one. Again, go jump in front of a train.
:crackup: Please, go jump in front of a train.

People who cheat are the scum of the earth and a waste of MY oxygen.
Yes.
 

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I kinda buy into the idea of that a guy needs multiple girls and a girl needs just one guy. Call me primitive. Noone is wrong we all just have a different mindset
 

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look at king henry, how many wives did he have? I do think Man should be with more than one Woman but it looks like things have changed now huh.

Saying this i have never cheated with my two ex's and never intend to in the future. Loser **** in my opinion.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cactus3178

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Cheating is rediculous.


The only time I ever did it was with my ex-ex (the ex GF before the last one). She fucked around on first, so I nailed both of her cousins in the same day (one at the river all drunk, then the other later at my uncle's house), managed to bang her best friend in the same week, and then hemmed up several more in a two week period from then on when I was shitfaced at the bar and didn't care. And that was back when I was 'AFC', or whatever the overused acronym of the week is.

In the end, all it did for me was make me feel guilty. Yeah, I got my pecker wet.....but I still overstepped. I shoulda dumped the sorry ass chick first, because it was my obligations and morals as a man that I compromised.

And some players will tell you that doesn't matter, but it's always mattered to me.

I'm not with anyone now, so I can do whatever the hell I want. And I do. I could put in FR's until some of you fucker's eyes bleed....and I'm just waiting for some asshead fool to call me a n00b, like they know, LOL.....and that's fine with me, say whatever ya want, but when your with somebody, it's different.

Point is, it's a bad thing. People do stupid things when emotions prevail.

If your in a relationship, chances are you feel a certain way about that chick your with. There's an unwritten law that even though your not married, you don't do that with another person. If you step over that invisible line with somebody else....what are you doing?

Why be in that position?

In the end, both people end up burned and nobody wins.


/my0.02
 

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Originally posted by dannyc
look at king henry, how many wives did he have? I do think Man should be with more than one Woman but it looks like things have changed now huh.

Saying this i have never cheated with my two ex's and never intend to in the future. Loser **** in my opinion.
Henry VIII was remembered as a fat king who was abit of a bastard. Not a good example.
 

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Nah... I don't do it... sh!t is just wrong to my integrity/heart as a man.

If I'm in a LTR... then its w. some1 special that I care about. I'm not tryin to dis that... it would only be hurting myself.

Anyways... besides that.

I feel theres nothing wrong w. waxing multiple chickx, but to not be upfront about who you are, and what your about... is shady. I respect myself, and wouldn't want any1 to do me wrong like that... so naturally I got to return the energy/respect.

If you want to wax other chix... cool, set that frame from the getgo (like some1 said earlier). Standing on your truth, Thats a man.


SuaveOn'
-DarkLight-
 

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Originally posted by Apollo_Jordan
I kinda buy into the idea of that a guy needs multiple girls and a girl needs just one guy. Call me primitive. Noone is wrong we all just have a different mindset
Then set up an honest MLTR and don't tell one you're gonna be exclusive. It's that easy.
 

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As a part-time train driver i have this to say, no more jumpings please :(.

Hang yourselves or something, alot of my colleges have had jumpers put them in therapy. How would you feel if you were driving along and some guy got blood and brains all over your car.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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