cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
No, I don't.
That's why I'm not in an LTR. But when I am, no, I don't fuck around.
That's why I'm not in an LTR. But when I am, no, I don't fuck around.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How many of You cheat in LTR ?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BG the HB Tamer
Don Juan
I don't. Ever.
Colinski282
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You sound insecure
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Derek doesn't cheat.
Because Derek is not a little boy anymore.
Derek is a man.
Because Derek is not a little boy anymore.
Derek is a man.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Re: How many of You cheat in LTR ?
Well, I'm 100% sure you'd be wrong, because I am in one. Again, go jump in front of a train.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LeviathanIYG
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LTR is about being exclusive
What is it about the word exclusive that you do not understand?
And would you think it's cool for your GF to f*ck another guy?
What is it about the word exclusive that you do not understand?
And would you think it's cool for your GF to f*ck another guy?
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
This is all getting a little heated. It shows difrent people have diffrent morals. Personally I dont judge others on whether they cheat or not. (by that i mean i have slept with girls who are in LTR and it doesnt affect me.) However when i have been in a LTR I def dont cheat.
ICaughtFire
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no i would never cheat in an exclusive ltr, i have something called loyalty, commitment and passion which you probably lack
Monkey
Master Don Juan
People who cheat are the scum of the earth and a waste of MY oxygen.
As another poster suggested - yes, please go jump in front of a train.
As another poster suggested - yes, please go jump in front of a train.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LeviathanIYG
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Would you be ok with her cheating?
Apollo_Jordan
Don Juan
I kinda buy into the idea of that a guy needs multiple girls and a girl needs just one guy. Call me primitive. Noone is wrong we all just have a different mindset
look at king henry, how many wives did he have? I do think Man should be with more than one Woman but it looks like things have changed now huh.
Saying this i have never cheated with my two ex's and never intend to in the future. Loser **** in my opinion.
Saying this i have never cheated with my two ex's and never intend to in the future. Loser **** in my opinion.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
Cheating is rediculous.
The only time I ever did it was with my ex-ex (the ex GF before the last one). She fucked around on first, so I nailed both of her cousins in the same day (one at the river all drunk, then the other later at my uncle's house), managed to bang her best friend in the same week, and then hemmed up several more in a two week period from then on when I was shitfaced at the bar and didn't care. And that was back when I was 'AFC', or whatever the overused acronym of the week is.
In the end, all it did for me was make me feel guilty. Yeah, I got my pecker wet.....but I still overstepped. I shoulda dumped the sorry ass chick first, because it was my obligations and morals as a man that I compromised.
And some players will tell you that doesn't matter, but it's always mattered to me.
I'm not with anyone now, so I can do whatever the hell I want. And I do. I could put in FR's until some of you fucker's eyes bleed....and I'm just waiting for some asshead fool to call me a n00b, like they know, LOL.....and that's fine with me, say whatever ya want, but when your with somebody, it's different.
Point is, it's a bad thing. People do stupid things when emotions prevail.
If your in a relationship, chances are you feel a certain way about that chick your with. There's an unwritten law that even though your not married, you don't do that with another person. If you step over that invisible line with somebody else....what are you doing?
Why be in that position?
In the end, both people end up burned and nobody wins.
/my0.02
The only time I ever did it was with my ex-ex (the ex GF before the last one). She fucked around on first, so I nailed both of her cousins in the same day (one at the river all drunk, then the other later at my uncle's house), managed to bang her best friend in the same week, and then hemmed up several more in a two week period from then on when I was shitfaced at the bar and didn't care. And that was back when I was 'AFC', or whatever the overused acronym of the week is.
In the end, all it did for me was make me feel guilty. Yeah, I got my pecker wet.....but I still overstepped. I shoulda dumped the sorry ass chick first, because it was my obligations and morals as a man that I compromised.
And some players will tell you that doesn't matter, but it's always mattered to me.
I'm not with anyone now, so I can do whatever the hell I want. And I do. I could put in FR's until some of you fucker's eyes bleed....and I'm just waiting for some asshead fool to call me a n00b, like they know, LOL.....and that's fine with me, say whatever ya want, but when your with somebody, it's different.
Point is, it's a bad thing. People do stupid things when emotions prevail.
If your in a relationship, chances are you feel a certain way about that chick your with. There's an unwritten law that even though your not married, you don't do that with another person. If you step over that invisible line with somebody else....what are you doing?
Why be in that position?
In the end, both people end up burned and nobody wins.
/my0.02
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Henry VIII was remembered as a fat king who was abit of a bastard. Not a good example.
Nah... I don't do it... sh!t is just wrong to my integrity/heart as a man.
If I'm in a LTR... then its w. some1 special that I care about. I'm not tryin to dis that... it would only be hurting myself.
Anyways... besides that.
I feel theres nothing wrong w. waxing multiple chickx, but to not be upfront about who you are, and what your about... is shady. I respect myself, and wouldn't want any1 to do me wrong like that... so naturally I got to return the energy/respect.
If you want to wax other chix... cool, set that frame from the getgo (like some1 said earlier). Standing on your truth, Thats a man.
SuaveOn'
-DarkLight-
If I'm in a LTR... then its w. some1 special that I care about. I'm not tryin to dis that... it would only be hurting myself.
Anyways... besides that.
I feel theres nothing wrong w. waxing multiple chickx, but to not be upfront about who you are, and what your about... is shady. I respect myself, and wouldn't want any1 to do me wrong like that... so naturally I got to return the energy/respect.
If you want to wax other chix... cool, set that frame from the getgo (like some1 said earlier). Standing on your truth, Thats a man.
SuaveOn'
-DarkLight-
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Then set up an honest MLTR and don't tell one you're gonna be exclusive. It's that easy.
Chillisauce
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As a part-time train driver i have this to say, no more jumpings please 
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Hang yourselves or something, alot of my colleges have had jumpers put them in therapy. How would you feel if you were driving along and some guy got blood and brains all over your car.
.Hang yourselves or something, alot of my colleges have had jumpers put them in therapy. How would you feel if you were driving along and some guy got blood and brains all over your car.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.