How many of you actually believe in the alpha bete sigma etc theory.

[eli77]

I do now more than ever.

 

[Redwood]

Too much thinking will in a weird twist of fate not make you an alpha.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Too much thinking will in a weird twist of fate not make you an alpha.

I mean all of these things exist in terms of people's personalities, but trying to be something you are not just makes you a phony and will make you incongruent with women.

You need to still be congruent with who you are.

 

[plumber]

yes the theory is valid. but the cause of the difference is a mystery for many as is the scope and reach. a man across the world that is alpha doesn't stop you from being alpha in your pond. ask ten men what makes an alpha and will get 10 different answers.

 

[eli77]

yes the theory is valid. but the cause of the difference is a mystery for many as is the scope and reach. a man across the world that is alpha doesn't stop you from being alpha in your pond. ask ten men what makes an alpha and will get 10 different answers.

Great point.

 

[CoolWave1331]

There's truth to it but we shouldn't really be too concerned about this stuff........

Instead of worrying about beta or alpha just try to be the best person you can be. Set personal goals and reach for them....this is a better thing to do than worrying about where you fit on "pecking order".

 

[SW15]

Alpha Fux/Beta Bucks is real.

 

[eli77]

Alpha Fux/Beta Bucks is real.

Hahaha original

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Not sure.

 

[Solomon]

There's some truth to it but it's not as black and white as the RP community tries to make it seem

 

[BaronOfHair]

"Alpha"-like "Red Pill-was fine, when it/they were just a little harmless slang. Today though, we're essentially having religious battles over the "true" definitions of these terms, the likes of which are almost as absurd as the clash between Sunni and Shia, Catholic and Protestant

Hell, the fracturing of The Manosphere actually mirrors what took place within Feminism, around the same time:

5:00-6:14 In a similar fashion, the definition of "Alpha" today no longer means: "Being self-assured, unabashed about your heterosexuality, and wielding an immense amount of influence".

Whereas Feminists have to regularly swear their fealty to Intersectionality/denounce The White CIS Racist Homophobic Capitalistic Patriarchal Power structure that's allegedly oppressed them since birth, today's self-described Alpha Males are required to publicly announce their Red Pill status every 5 minutes/mindlessly spout off buzzwords like Gynocentrism, Feminine Primary Social Order, Hypergamy, WITHOUT ever asking: "What the hell does any of that claptrap even mean?"

 

[MatureDJ]

Alpha Fux/Beta Bucks is real.

 

[jhonny9546]

There is also something else like the theory of control or the power theory.


For example: Why do girls suddenly show a disinterest in you when you message them too much? Why does a girl cheat on you and when you leave her cry about it and want you back? Why does a girl **** test you? Why does sex die after marriage

They want to see if you are in control or if they can control you.
As long as you are a high SMV male all your relationships will be successful if you are incontrol.
But remember, once you lose control the relationship is over.


It's just finding ways to be connected, intimate with her, have a good life, but not giving the power/control to her. (This is what people say when you don't give her room for "disrespecting" you.)

 

[BaronOfHair]

Why do girls suddenly show a disinterest in you when you message them too much?

-Such behavior is more annoying than being forced, at gunpoint, to listen to Bridget Jones's Diary on audiobook, read by Michele Wolf

-It's indicative of someone who has too much time on their hands, and has nothing of substance in their lives

Most PEOPLE find such traits unappealing

 

[Gamisch]

I believe it's absolutely true.

I only have trouble with the sigma handle. Other than that, most men are beta because beta is what keeps the world go round and round. Too many alpha are literally like an army of soldiers/ one man armies that will fight for the throne.

This generation is beta'fied so much that they/we won't be willing to give our life for the greater cause. We all want to maintain our cushion job and lifestyle even knowing that on the opposite side of the world, or even the city people are starving.

 

[Gamisch]

I believe it's absolutely true.

I only have trouble with the sigma handle. Other than that, most men are beta because beta is what keeps the world go round and round. Too many alpha are literally like an army of soldiers/ one man armies that will fight for the throne.

This generation is beta'fied so much that they/we won't be willing to give our life for the greater cause. We all want to maintain our cushion job and lifestyle even knowing that on the opposite side of the world, or even the city people are starving.

I kinda went off topic there. However..any man can (and will) transition between being alha and beta . We are animals at heart, and thus we are 1000000 % aware of our position in the social hierarchy. Being beta is "fine " for now but will change in a heartbeat if let's say war or any kind of natural disaster takes over. To give credit to the betas: if tune get tough you'll probably see a lot of man change in real fast like domestic pigs can go to feral hogs in a few weeks.

Being beta is the safe route, but simultaneously it's the death of any civilization because eventually some kind of Alpha will emerge and take over by force

 

[BaronOfHair]

I believe it's absolutely true

Yeah, if a fella chooses to be a SNAG
https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2007-nov-22-et-tell22-story.html , he'll end getting taken to the cleaners, in most areas of life