shesabranchswinger
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How many times do you think the average 35 year old Woman has been on the CC? I was wrapping with one the other day she brought it up and said 10 I laughed.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah... Rollo T talked about it in his Rational Male books that they ride the CC (aka party years that her SMV offers her) in their 20s and then around age 28 they hit the epiphany age and "clean up" their act to lock down a man for marriage.You probably don't want to know.
And a lot of girls are good at changing their personalities to lock down a man. So they are dirty sluts in their 20's and then turn into innocent virgins in their 30's. I've seen it. Its breathtaking.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Correct. I've seen women pretend to change as well. After sleeping with dozens and dozens of men and being very freaky, one particular woman I know pretended to be an innocent broad looking for a husband. The sad part is, a guy actually fell for the trap.You probably don't want to know.
And a lot of girls are good at changing their personalities to lock down a man. So they are dirty sluts in their 20's and then turn into innocent virgins in their 30's. I've seen it. Its breathtaking.
Agreed I have seen it toYou probably don't want to know.
And a lot of girls are good at changing their personalities to lock down a man. So they are dirty sluts in their 20's and then turn into innocent virgins in their 30's. I've seen it. Its breathtaking.
It depends on how she handled being alpha-widowed. The majority of them will go out, party, and fvck everything to deal with the loss of their "soulmate". The minority will go celibate. These are the women who start collecting cats.How many times do you think the average 35 year old Woman has been on the CC?
You don't have to be on dozens or hundreds of c0cks to gain that skill either. It can be on half a dozen boyfriends which were all long term commitments over a period of many years.Its a difficult one isn't it.
Do you want a woman who knows what she likes and can openly communicate this to you. Who is disciplined and unafraid to experiment in roleplay in order to create a sexual event with you rather than a easily forgotten shag . Who has experience and techniques that mean you don't spend the first fifteen minutes of oral sex chewing your nails.
OR
Do you want a woman so afraid you will regard her as a worthless slut because she happens to like sex she has to pretend to be a naive virgin in order to attain some respect from you.
NB. You are not born being a skilled lover. It takes time and imagination and also experience. It is a skill that is much valued by some 'real' men.
Of course, or you can even be a virgin and learn over a period of time with one partner and that goes for both people in the relationship.You don't have to be on dozens or hundreds of c0cks to gain that skill either. It can be on half a dozen boyfriends which were all long term commitments over a period of many years.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
No one wants an old crock who can't keep it up unless he is thing about children either.Thanks but no, not willing to pay full price to fix a broken car after countless other drivers had a test drive for free with the interior still smelling fresh.
Btw 35 yrs old woman is like last week milk to me, better push it behind the shelf to avoid someone not paying attention to buy it.
Lol. That's why you can't pair-bond with a woman this age. Her CC has been fast and furious.I've read that it's advisable to multiply the number by 7...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.