shesabranchswinger
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How many times do you think the average 35 year old Woman has been on the CC? I was wrapping with one the other day she brought it up and said 10 I laughed.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah... Rollo T talked about it in his Rational Male books that they ride the CC (aka party years that her SMV offers her) in their 20s and then around age 28 they hit the epiphany age and "clean up" their act to lock down a man for marriage.You probably don't want to know.
And a lot of girls are good at changing their personalities to lock down a man. So they are dirty sluts in their 20's and then turn into innocent virgins in their 30's. I've seen it. Its breathtaking.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Correct. I've seen women pretend to change as well. After sleeping with dozens and dozens of men and being very freaky, one particular woman I know pretended to be an innocent broad looking for a husband. The sad part is, a guy actually fell for the trap.You probably don't want to know.
And a lot of girls are good at changing their personalities to lock down a man. So they are dirty sluts in their 20's and then turn into innocent virgins in their 30's. I've seen it. Its breathtaking.
Agreed I have seen it toYou probably don't want to know.
And a lot of girls are good at changing their personalities to lock down a man. So they are dirty sluts in their 20's and then turn into innocent virgins in their 30's. I've seen it. Its breathtaking.
It depends on how she handled being alpha-widowed. The majority of them will go out, party, and fvck everything to deal with the loss of their "soulmate". The minority will go celibate. These are the women who start collecting cats.How many times do you think the average 35 year old Woman has been on the CC?
You don't have to be on dozens or hundreds of c0cks to gain that skill either. It can be on half a dozen boyfriends which were all long term commitments over a period of many years.Its a difficult one isn't it.
Do you want a woman who knows what she likes and can openly communicate this to you. Who is disciplined and unafraid to experiment in roleplay in order to create a sexual event with you rather than a easily forgotten shag . Who has experience and techniques that mean you don't spend the first fifteen minutes of oral sex chewing your nails.
OR
Do you want a woman so afraid you will regard her as a worthless slut because she happens to like sex she has to pretend to be a naive virgin in order to attain some respect from you.
NB. You are not born being a skilled lover. It takes time and imagination and also experience. It is a skill that is much valued by some 'real' men.
Of course, or you can even be a virgin and learn over a period of time with one partner and that goes for both people in the relationship.You don't have to be on dozens or hundreds of c0cks to gain that skill either. It can be on half a dozen boyfriends which were all long term commitments over a period of many years.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No one wants an old crock who can't keep it up unless he is thing about children either.Thanks but no, not willing to pay full price to fix a broken car after countless other drivers had a test drive for free with the interior still smelling fresh.
Btw 35 yrs old woman is like last week milk to me, better push it behind the shelf to avoid someone not paying attention to buy it.
Lol. That's why you can't pair-bond with a woman this age. Her CC has been fast and furious.I've read that it's advisable to multiply the number by 7...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.