"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How many guys by 35

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I've kept track of 4 of the girls I've dated in my past for the last 10yrs. Most of them go thru about 2 guys a year that I can verify. And most have only had one LTR/marriage that lasted 5-10yrs. So lets say they started having sechs when they were 18, and had one 7yr LTR. By age 35 that puts them somewhere close to 20 dudes. All of these girls live in major cities which makes this really easy to do.

My sister has never been married, never any relationships lasting over 2 years. She is pushing 40. she told me she has no clue how many guys she has been with and didn't want to say a number other than it was over 20. I'd guess its over 40.

My cousin is close to 40 and never been married, she had 2-5yr LTR's. She goes thru about 1 guy per year and first had sechs when she was 17. That puts her number close to 15guys.

My exwife I met in high school. She started having sechs when she was 14. I was #4. She has been in ltr's 16yrs of her life. I personally know 9 of the guys she has been with her entire life. Her number stands at 12 guys & 1 chic that I can confirm. She is 40. She has no problem admitting to me who she has been with.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Howiestern said:
I've kept track of 4 of the girls I've dated in my past for the last 10yrs. Most of them go thru about 2 guys a year that I can verify. And most have only had one LTR/marriage that lasted 5-10yrs. So lets say they started having sechs when they were 18, and had one 7yr LTR. By age 35 that puts them somewhere close to 20 dudes. All of these girls live in major cities which makes this really easy to do.

My sister has never been married, never any relationships lasting over 2 years. She is pushing 40. she told me she has no clue how many guys she has been with and didn't want to say a number other than it was over 20. I'd guess its over 40.

My cousin is close to 40 and never been married, she had 2-5yr LTR's. She goes thru about 1 guy per year and first had sechs when she was 17. That puts her number close to 15guys.

My exwife I met in high school. She started having sechs when she was 14. I was #4. She has been in ltr's 16yrs of her life. I personally know 9 of the guys she has been with her entire life. Her number stands at 12 guys & 1 chic that I can confirm. She is 40. She has no problem admitting to me who she has been with.
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Those numbers are low compared to the average high school graduate these days.

My first gf was 18 in 1993 and I was 23 and I was #17 for her. She later (when washed up at 21) said she was with 200+ men after we broke up. I realized she was probably an escort on the side. The hottest girl of the year, and hottest girl I ever dated until my current gf. You see, the younger guys often don't know about her Sugar Daddies. I sure didn't. I never would have understood.

Every time a woman sleeps with another man, her value intrinsically goes down a notch, and everyone knows it.
 
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I think another phenomena you'll see that amps up the number count are the orbiters she screws on the side while branch swinging. Especially after a LTR or when a marriage ends. A guy could get a few good lays out of her before she hits and quits it or settles into another LTR with her favorite lay of the mix.
 
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Another thing that is kind of interesting, is just think how easy it is to lay these girls......once I got some experience and knew half way what I was doing, 99pct dropped their panties on the 2nd or 3rd date. hahaha. I don't know if that means I'm that good, or they were that easy! :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Howiestern said:
I've kept track of 4 of the girls I've dated in my past for the last 10yrs. Most of them go thru about 2 guys a year that I can verify. And most have only had one LTR/marriage that lasted 5-10yrs. So lets say they started having sechs when they were 18, and had one 7yr LTR. By age 35 that puts them somewhere close to 20 dudes. All of these girls live in major cities which makes this really easy to do.

My sister has never been married, never any relationships lasting over 2 years. She is pushing 40. she told me she has no clue how many guys she has been with and didn't want to say a number other than it was over 20. I'd guess its over 40.

My cousin is close to 40 and never been married, she had 2-5yr LTR's. She goes thru about 1 guy per year and first had sechs when she was 17. That puts her number close to 15guys.

My exwife I met in high school. She started having sechs when she was 14. I was #4. She has been in ltr's 16yrs of her life. I personally know 9 of the guys she has been with her entire life. Her number stands at 12 guys & 1 chic that I can confirm. She is 40. She has no problem admitting to me who she has been with.
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Key word verified, I'm good friends with a woman who is friends with a mutual woman friend of mine. I never talk to friend two about her past, but friend one will tell me about friend two's sexual history from time to time because friend two had a thing for me in the past. I can verify friend twos past as 2 or 3 a year from what I have seen. But from what friend one talks about friend two is already up to 4 guys this year and it's only may. I have friend two marked down for 1 guy this year because that's all I can verify. So at that rate friend two may be at 8 guys this year if she doesn't find a LTR but her front to the world is 0-2 guys in non relationship years.
 
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Howiestern said:
Another thing that is kind of interesting, is just think how easy it is to lay these girls......once I got some experience and knew half way what I was doing, 99pct dropped their panties on the 2nd or 3rd date. hahaha. I don't know if that means I'm that good, or they were that easy! :p
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A little bit of both, when luck meets talent.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't plan on ever marrying any of them, nor becoming overly attached...

Best to live in the moment with women, enjoy them for what they bring to you without thinking
too much about their past.

This type of conversation with women never leads to anywhere positive.
 
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