shesabranchswinger
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How many times do you think the average 35 year old Woman has been on the CC? I was wrapping with one the other day she brought it up and said 10 I laughed.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How many guys by 35
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Initiatedindenial
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Difficult to say. Depends on background, country and the girl personality.
shesabranchswinger
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Background single child college saroity From USA .
Friendly flirty get the vibe she's a bit on the gold digger side asked me what Kind of car I had she online Dates but I met her at the park.
Friendly flirty get the vibe she's a bit on the gold digger side asked me what Kind of car I had she online Dates but I met her at the park.
shesabranchswinger
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Right so funny that's what I was thinking. Why do they lie about stupid ****e like that matters. I don't care if I'm #11 or #31
Initiatedindenial
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What you should really be asking yourself is why is she bringing up that subject. In my experience women who ask or "state" their CC rides are the dirtiest sluts.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Solomon
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lol at 10, unless she has been married than yeah. but if not multiple by that by 4
Mike32ct
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Best not to ask or even think about it lol.
But easily 20+.
But easily 20+.
You probably don't want to know.
And a lot of girls are good at changing their personalities to lock down a man. So they are dirty sluts in their 20's and then turn into innocent virgins in their 30's. I've seen it. Its breathtaking.
And a lot of girls are good at changing their personalities to lock down a man. So they are dirty sluts in their 20's and then turn into innocent virgins in their 30's. I've seen it. Its breathtaking.
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Yeah... Rollo T talked about it in his Rational Male books that they ride the CC (aka party years that her SMV offers her) in their 20s and then around age 28 they hit the epiphany age and "clean up" their act to lock down a man for marriage.
Thanks to our DJ training, we are smarter to know the difference, but hey, who cares if you're having fun with her, eh?
Its a difficult one isn't it.
Do you want a woman who knows what she likes and can openly communicate this to you. Who is disciplined and unafraid to experiment in roleplay in order to create a sexual event with you rather than a easily forgotten shag . Who has experience and techniques that mean you don't spend the first fifteen minutes of oral sex chewing your nails.
OR
Do you want a woman so afraid you will regard her as a worthless slut because she happens to like sex she has to pretend to be a naive virgin in order to attain some respect from you.
NB. You are not born being a skilled lover. It takes time and imagination and also experience. It is a skill that is much valued by some 'real' men.
Do you want a woman who knows what she likes and can openly communicate this to you. Who is disciplined and unafraid to experiment in roleplay in order to create a sexual event with you rather than a easily forgotten shag . Who has experience and techniques that mean you don't spend the first fifteen minutes of oral sex chewing your nails.
OR
Do you want a woman so afraid you will regard her as a worthless slut because she happens to like sex she has to pretend to be a naive virgin in order to attain some respect from you.
NB. You are not born being a skilled lover. It takes time and imagination and also experience. It is a skill that is much valued by some 'real' men.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Correct. I've seen women pretend to change as well. After sleeping with dozens and dozens of men and being very freaky, one particular woman I know pretended to be an innocent broad looking for a husband. The sad part is, a guy actually fell for the trap.
I found out she was promiscuous during after-secks talk on a bed. She confessed it all. And that's when I decided she was an STD risk and I moved on without any explanation or blame to her. In revenge, she began complaining to her female friend, who happens to be my best friend's wife. The broad I was seeing said I treated her like crap, that I only used her for secks, etc., when in reality we actually went out in dates and I never did anything to her. She was the one who would literally grab my crotch in public and make out with me. I can't make this stuff up--you don't believe it's real until it happens to you.
shesabranchswinger
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Agreed I have seen it to
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It depends on how she handled being alpha-widowed. The majority of them will go out, party, and fvck everything to deal with the loss of their "soulmate". The minority will go celibate. These are the women who start collecting cats.
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You don't have to be on dozens or hundreds of c0cks to gain that skill either. It can be on half a dozen boyfriends which were all long term commitments over a period of many years.
Of course, or you can even be a virgin and learn over a period of time with one partner and that goes for both people in the relationship.
Genital herpes is not a good aphrodisiac, a rich imagination is.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Thanks but no, not willing to pay full price to fix a broken car after countless other drivers had a test drive for free with the interior still smelling fresh.
Btw 35 yrs old woman is like last week milk to me, better push it behind the shelf to avoid someone not paying attention to buy it.
Btw 35 yrs old woman is like last week milk to me, better push it behind the shelf to avoid someone not paying attention to buy it.
No one wants an old crock who can't keep it up unless he is thing about children either.
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Lol. That's why you can't pair-bond with a woman this age. Her CC has been fast and furious.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.