shesabranchswinger
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How many times do you think the average 35 year old Woman has been on the CC? I was wrapping with one the other day she brought it up and said 10 I laughed.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How many guys by 35
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Initiatedindenial
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Difficult to say. Depends on background, country and the girl personality.
shesabranchswinger
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Background single child college saroity From USA .
Friendly flirty get the vibe she's a bit on the gold digger side asked me what Kind of car I had she online Dates but I met her at the park.
Friendly flirty get the vibe she's a bit on the gold digger side asked me what Kind of car I had she online Dates but I met her at the park.
shesabranchswinger
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Right so funny that's what I was thinking. Why do they lie about stupid ****e like that matters. I don't care if I'm #11 or #31
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What you should really be asking yourself is why is she bringing up that subject. In my experience women who ask or "state" their CC rides are the dirtiest sluts.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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lol at 10, unless she has been married than yeah. but if not multiple by that by 4
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Best not to ask or even think about it lol.
But easily 20+.
But easily 20+.
You probably don't want to know.
And a lot of girls are good at changing their personalities to lock down a man. So they are dirty sluts in their 20's and then turn into innocent virgins in their 30's. I've seen it. Its breathtaking.
And a lot of girls are good at changing their personalities to lock down a man. So they are dirty sluts in their 20's and then turn into innocent virgins in their 30's. I've seen it. Its breathtaking.
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Yeah... Rollo T talked about it in his Rational Male books that they ride the CC (aka party years that her SMV offers her) in their 20s and then around age 28 they hit the epiphany age and "clean up" their act to lock down a man for marriage.
Thanks to our DJ training, we are smarter to know the difference, but hey, who cares if you're having fun with her, eh?
Its a difficult one isn't it.
Do you want a woman who knows what she likes and can openly communicate this to you. Who is disciplined and unafraid to experiment in roleplay in order to create a sexual event with you rather than a easily forgotten shag . Who has experience and techniques that mean you don't spend the first fifteen minutes of oral sex chewing your nails.
OR
Do you want a woman so afraid you will regard her as a worthless slut because she happens to like sex she has to pretend to be a naive virgin in order to attain some respect from you.
NB. You are not born being a skilled lover. It takes time and imagination and also experience. It is a skill that is much valued by some 'real' men.
Do you want a woman who knows what she likes and can openly communicate this to you. Who is disciplined and unafraid to experiment in roleplay in order to create a sexual event with you rather than a easily forgotten shag . Who has experience and techniques that mean you don't spend the first fifteen minutes of oral sex chewing your nails.
OR
Do you want a woman so afraid you will regard her as a worthless slut because she happens to like sex she has to pretend to be a naive virgin in order to attain some respect from you.
NB. You are not born being a skilled lover. It takes time and imagination and also experience. It is a skill that is much valued by some 'real' men.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Correct. I've seen women pretend to change as well. After sleeping with dozens and dozens of men and being very freaky, one particular woman I know pretended to be an innocent broad looking for a husband. The sad part is, a guy actually fell for the trap.
I found out she was promiscuous during after-secks talk on a bed. She confessed it all. And that's when I decided she was an STD risk and I moved on without any explanation or blame to her. In revenge, she began complaining to her female friend, who happens to be my best friend's wife. The broad I was seeing said I treated her like crap, that I only used her for secks, etc., when in reality we actually went out in dates and I never did anything to her. She was the one who would literally grab my crotch in public and make out with me. I can't make this stuff up--you don't believe it's real until it happens to you.
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Agreed I have seen it to
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It depends on how she handled being alpha-widowed. The majority of them will go out, party, and fvck everything to deal with the loss of their "soulmate". The minority will go celibate. These are the women who start collecting cats.
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You don't have to be on dozens or hundreds of c0cks to gain that skill either. It can be on half a dozen boyfriends which were all long term commitments over a period of many years.
Of course, or you can even be a virgin and learn over a period of time with one partner and that goes for both people in the relationship.
Genital herpes is not a good aphrodisiac, a rich imagination is.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Thanks but no, not willing to pay full price to fix a broken car after countless other drivers had a test drive for free with the interior still smelling fresh.
Btw 35 yrs old woman is like last week milk to me, better push it behind the shelf to avoid someone not paying attention to buy it.
Btw 35 yrs old woman is like last week milk to me, better push it behind the shelf to avoid someone not paying attention to buy it.
No one wants an old crock who can't keep it up unless he is thing about children either.
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Lol. That's why you can't pair-bond with a woman this age. Her CC has been fast and furious.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.