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Don Juan
Originally posted by tseluca
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impressive.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Originally posted by tseluca
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
thxOriginally posted by Social Engineering
enjoy your aids...
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I see where you're going with this, but to count girls that you 'wanted to get with' is rediculous.Originally posted by Oxide
I always thought this question was flawed since quality is a big factor (or rather, it should be!).
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Girl you actually wanted to get with ( for example, a hot girl in a club or bar) 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
In that case...2+2+2-3=3Originally posted by Oxide
IGirl you actually wanted to get with ( for example, a hot girl in a club or bar) 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
Originally posted by Oxide
I always thought this question was flawed since quality is a big factor (or rather, it should be!).
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Hot girls you got with. 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Awww...you trying to attack me on my own thread you piss ant? Sorry to disappoint you...I was in a relationship this year so I got mines dipsh!t.Originally posted by Oxide
Let me guess, you voted #1
First of all "son" I'm 22 soon to be 23.How old are you son, because in REAL LIFE people lower their standards much more than you think.
Not only are you a troll but your also a SLUT!Originally posted by tseluca
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If they occured in the same year, they probably weren't 'long term'Originally posted by Keeper
3.
2 of those were LTR's.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lol... with 2 exceptions this year. Every girl I erver get with is 5'3" or less...Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
I only sleep with girls that i consider 8 and up.... so for me, there's no change in my score.
Very few guys on here would say I've slept with an ugly girl. The asian chick I banged a few weeks ago was about the lowest I've gone. She had a pretty face and a great body but she was like 4'8'' so it was kinda freaky.
I could be banging 4 girls a week....... anyone could. But, i'm not a dragon slayer.Originally posted by So pimp its scary
Lol... with 2 exceptions this year. Every girl I erver get with is 5'3" or less...
The sad part about this poll is that it's essentially irrelevent. I mean, by the standards set out I am a horribly disgusting slut... yet, I know guys that litterally every weekend will sleep with 1-2 girls... yes, that's 4-8 girls a month, with very few repeat servicing. Yes, I **** you not... that's 48- 75 girls in a year (this guy told me that he's been with at least 250 women... but it sucks because he doesn't even know anymore, that sometimes he'll sleep with a 'new woman' but is really just a 'used women' from the year before or something.
Don't think I'm making this up, I've watched the guy in action many times.
I really don't think just ANYONE could get as much action, motivation, and becming sexually satisfied would slow most people down... Really though, that guy that I mention is not about games or anything... just a straight up character that naturally sleeps with a lot of women. I tried discussing game with the guy and all he tells me is "too much planning, I'm just here for fun"I could be banging 4 girls a week....... anyone could. But, i'm not a dragon slayer.
I don't have supermodel standards but I do date and screw pretty girls. I've never been with a girl who is a 9.999... Most of those ones are trouble, anyways. My average girls are 8.5's to 9. The cute girl next door types who look absolutely gorgeous when they're dressd for an night out but can also loolk sexy in a pnoytail, ballcap and sweat pants. The REAL girls who don't wear tons of makeup.
Everyone's scale is different.
Jesus...here we go again.Originally posted by So pimp its scary
The sad part about this poll is that it's essentially irrelevent. I mean, by the standards set out I am a horribly disgusting slut... yet, I know guys that litterally every weekend will sleep with 1-2 girls... yes, that's 4-8 girls a month, with very few repeat servicing. Yes, I **** you not... that's 48- 75 girls in a year (this guy told me that he's been with at least 250 women... but it sucks because he doesn't even know anymore, that sometimes he'll sleep with a 'new woman' but is really just a 'used women' from the year before or something.
Don't think I'm making this up, I've watched the guy in action many times.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.