gongxia649
Don Juan
impressive.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How many did you DO in 2005?
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impressive.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
thx
Only have a few more thousands of days of my life going to have as much fun and pleasure that i can have.So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
This will be fun
New Years Day :
2 (actually, 1 because the second was about 4 hours before the new year)
Jan - End of Feb
7 Between myself and my roomate we plowed through at least 1 chick each per weekend.
March
3 - My goal was 4 girls in particular before leaving for a new city (Calgary)
April
1 - Picked up this chick doing door-to-door work
May-June
1 - I started dating a girl... lasted a bit into June
July
2 - My roommate tells me that if you dn't get laid at stampede your either gay or not trying... I picked up 2 chicks that night (one for my roommate) but he screwed that up...
August
1 - My roommates had a 3 way blind date. I told them we just needed to find out which place we're going to bang... when 1 of them told me not to think that way I had to prove him wrong... the answer : AT HER HOUSE
Sept-October
Found out I had chlamydia, so I had to go a month and a half without.
November -Dec
Tag on another 2
Friggin hell... I didn't even realize I plowed 19 girls in 2005.... plus 1 VD
New Years Day :
2 (actually, 1 because the second was about 4 hours before the new year)
Jan - End of Feb
7 Between myself and my roomate we plowed through at least 1 chick each per weekend.
March
3 - My goal was 4 girls in particular before leaving for a new city (Calgary)
April
1 - Picked up this chick doing door-to-door work
May-June
1 - I started dating a girl... lasted a bit into June
July
2 - My roommate tells me that if you dn't get laid at stampede your either gay or not trying... I picked up 2 chicks that night (one for my roommate) but he screwed that up...
August
1 - My roommates had a 3 way blind date. I told them we just needed to find out which place we're going to bang... when 1 of them told me not to think that way I had to prove him wrong... the answer : AT HER HOUSE
Sept-October
Found out I had chlamydia, so I had to go a month and a half without.
November -Dec
Tag on another 2
Friggin hell... I didn't even realize I plowed 19 girls in 2005.... plus 1 VD
I always thought this question was flawed since quality is a big factor (or rather, it should be!).
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Hot girls you got with. 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Hot girls you got with. 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I see where you're going with this, but to count girls that you 'wanted to get with' is rediculous.Originally posted by Oxide
I always thought this question was flawed since quality is a big factor (or rather, it should be!).
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Girl you actually wanted to get with ( for example, a hot girl in a club or bar) 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
If you meant to count hotties that you've ****ed as +2 and drunk fuglies as -3...
Change my score from 19 to.... approximately 17 a couple of hotties - a couple of lesser women.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
I didn't manage it this year, or the years before that. I may not manage it in 2006 either. But it's fine.
Chances are, I have 50 or 60 years left to make it happen, so I'm not in a big hurry. Plus if you don't do it, does it make you any less of a man?
Right now, the only serious concern I have is that if I'm 40 years old and not married it may hurt me because for some reason, people think married men are somehow more stable or reliable than single men, and thus have a better chance at getting promotions or better jobs. This sort of thinking by others may indirectly hurt my financial standing. However, that is the only serious concern I have.
Granted, I'm curious to know what it's like. But I don't feel like I need it.
If anyone asks me "How come you've been single for all these years?" I can always say "Because I've never found the right one."
Dying a single man won't make me heartbroken. Dying a virgin probably won't make me heartbroken.
Dying a failure will.
Ben
Chances are, I have 50 or 60 years left to make it happen, so I'm not in a big hurry. Plus if you don't do it, does it make you any less of a man?
Right now, the only serious concern I have is that if I'm 40 years old and not married it may hurt me because for some reason, people think married men are somehow more stable or reliable than single men, and thus have a better chance at getting promotions or better jobs. This sort of thinking by others may indirectly hurt my financial standing. However, that is the only serious concern I have.
Granted, I'm curious to know what it's like. But I don't feel like I need it.
If anyone asks me "How come you've been single for all these years?" I can always say "Because I've never found the right one."
Dying a single man won't make me heartbroken. Dying a virgin probably won't make me heartbroken.
Dying a failure will.
Ben
Originally posted by Oxide
I always thought this question was flawed since quality is a big factor (or rather, it should be!).
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Hot girls you got with. 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
If you want to change the scoring system then start your own thread dude. There are no rules or equations on this one. Besides, it's safe to assume that a good 90% of the members on this forum would never f*ck an ugly b!tch. They're trying to get the HBs that they really want, which is one of the main reasons they're apart of this site. If they settled for sh!t, they wouldn't even have time to post on this forum because they'd have too many fat disgusting hoes to f*ck all day.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Awww...you trying to attack me on my own thread you piss ant? Sorry to disappoint you...I was in a relationship this year so I got mines dipsh!t.
First of all "son" I'm 22 soon to be 23.
Secondly, it's funny to see you compare this place to real life. If majority of the members on this forum lowered their standards as much as the average guy in real life does, you wouldn't be reading so many pathetic loser a$$ threads about "trying to get the HB8/9 to stop telling me LJBF".
Lastly, I tried to ask you nicely before, but now just get the f*ck out of my thread.
Keeper
Master Don Juan
3.
2 of those were LTR's.
2 of those were LTR's.
Mr. Unique
Master Don Juan
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Not only are you a troll but your also a SLUT!
Anyways, I banged only one girl, hey im young.
Distant light, im impressed
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
I only sleep with girls that i consider 8 and up.... so for me, there's no change in my score.
Very few guys on here would say I've slept with an ugly girl. The asian chick I banged a few weeks ago was about the lowest I've gone. She had a pretty face and a great body but she was like 4'8'' so it was kinda freaky.
Very few guys on here would say I've slept with an ugly girl. The asian chick I banged a few weeks ago was about the lowest I've gone. She had a pretty face and a great body but she was like 4'8'' so it was kinda freaky.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Lol... with 2 exceptions this year. Every girl I erver get with is 5'3" or less...
The sad part about this poll is that it's essentially irrelevent. I mean, by the standards set out I am a horribly disgusting slut... yet, I know guys that litterally every weekend will sleep with 1-2 girls... yes, that's 4-8 girls a month, with very few repeat servicing. Yes, I **** you not... that's 48- 75 girls in a year (this guy told me that he's been with at least 250 women... but it sucks because he doesn't even know anymore, that sometimes he'll sleep with a 'new woman' but is really just a 'used women' from the year before or something.
Don't think I'm making this up, I've watched the guy in action many times.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
I could be banging 4 girls a week....... anyone could. But, i'm not a dragon slayer.
I don't have supermodel standards but I do date and screw pretty girls. I've never been with a girl who is a 9.999... Most of those ones are trouble, anyways. My average girls are 8.5's to 9. The cute girl next door types who look absolutely gorgeous when they're dressd for an night out but can also loolk sexy in a pnoytail, ballcap and sweat pants. The REAL girls who don't wear tons of makeup.
Everyone's scale is different.
MightyMate
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Since i got in LTR i didnt chse many chicks. But before i did i ****ed a few this year. Today i was about to cheat on my girl but didnt do.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I really don't think just ANYONE could get as much action, motivation, and becming sexually satisfied would slow most people down... Really though, that guy that I mention is not about games or anything... just a straight up character that naturally sleeps with a lot of women. I tried discussing game with the guy and all he tells me is "too much planning, I'm just here for fun"
I think you made the mistake that I was talking about hottness when I was talking about height. Most of the girls I end up with aren't terribly hot usually the next day I'd put them at about 6-7's on 10 in hottness, but I LOVE short women.
Anything taller than 5'6' and I'm not even interested at all.
Jesus...here we go again.
All I have to say to that is just take a look at the results man. Majority is falling in the 1 or 2 range, and less than 13% on here were with 6 or more. You call that irrelevant? This poll is ONLY HERE TO REPRESENT THIS FORUM. Guess we can't all be so pimp it's scary.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.