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Don Juan
Originally posted by tseluca
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impressive.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Originally posted by tseluca
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
thxOriginally posted by Social Engineering
enjoy your aids...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I see where you're going with this, but to count girls that you 'wanted to get with' is rediculous.Originally posted by Oxide
I always thought this question was flawed since quality is a big factor (or rather, it should be!).
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Girl you actually wanted to get with ( for example, a hot girl in a club or bar) 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
In that case...2+2+2-3=3Originally posted by Oxide
IGirl you actually wanted to get with ( for example, a hot girl in a club or bar) 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
Originally posted by Oxide
I always thought this question was flawed since quality is a big factor (or rather, it should be!).
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Hot girls you got with. 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Awww...you trying to attack me on my own thread you piss ant? Sorry to disappoint you...I was in a relationship this year so I got mines dipsh!t.Originally posted by Oxide
Let me guess, you voted #1
First of all "son" I'm 22 soon to be 23.How old are you son, because in REAL LIFE people lower their standards much more than you think.
Not only are you a troll but your also a SLUT!Originally posted by tseluca
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If they occured in the same year, they probably weren't 'long term'Originally posted by Keeper
3.
2 of those were LTR's.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lol... with 2 exceptions this year. Every girl I erver get with is 5'3" or less...Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
I only sleep with girls that i consider 8 and up.... so for me, there's no change in my score.
Very few guys on here would say I've slept with an ugly girl. The asian chick I banged a few weeks ago was about the lowest I've gone. She had a pretty face and a great body but she was like 4'8'' so it was kinda freaky.
I could be banging 4 girls a week....... anyone could. But, i'm not a dragon slayer.Originally posted by So pimp its scary
Lol... with 2 exceptions this year. Every girl I erver get with is 5'3" or less...
The sad part about this poll is that it's essentially irrelevent. I mean, by the standards set out I am a horribly disgusting slut... yet, I know guys that litterally every weekend will sleep with 1-2 girls... yes, that's 4-8 girls a month, with very few repeat servicing. Yes, I **** you not... that's 48- 75 girls in a year (this guy told me that he's been with at least 250 women... but it sucks because he doesn't even know anymore, that sometimes he'll sleep with a 'new woman' but is really just a 'used women' from the year before or something.
Don't think I'm making this up, I've watched the guy in action many times.
I really don't think just ANYONE could get as much action, motivation, and becming sexually satisfied would slow most people down... Really though, that guy that I mention is not about games or anything... just a straight up character that naturally sleeps with a lot of women. I tried discussing game with the guy and all he tells me is "too much planning, I'm just here for fun"I could be banging 4 girls a week....... anyone could. But, i'm not a dragon slayer.
I don't have supermodel standards but I do date and screw pretty girls. I've never been with a girl who is a 9.999... Most of those ones are trouble, anyways. My average girls are 8.5's to 9. The cute girl next door types who look absolutely gorgeous when they're dressd for an night out but can also loolk sexy in a pnoytail, ballcap and sweat pants. The REAL girls who don't wear tons of makeup.
Everyone's scale is different.
Jesus...here we go again.Originally posted by So pimp its scary
The sad part about this poll is that it's essentially irrelevent. I mean, by the standards set out I am a horribly disgusting slut... yet, I know guys that litterally every weekend will sleep with 1-2 girls... yes, that's 4-8 girls a month, with very few repeat servicing. Yes, I **** you not... that's 48- 75 girls in a year (this guy told me that he's been with at least 250 women... but it sucks because he doesn't even know anymore, that sometimes he'll sleep with a 'new woman' but is really just a 'used women' from the year before or something.
Don't think I'm making this up, I've watched the guy in action many times.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.