gongxia649
Don Juan
impressive.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How many did you DO in 2005?
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impressive.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
thx
Only have a few more thousands of days of my life going to have as much fun and pleasure that i can have.So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
This will be fun
New Years Day :
2 (actually, 1 because the second was about 4 hours before the new year)
Jan - End of Feb
7 Between myself and my roomate we plowed through at least 1 chick each per weekend.
March
3 - My goal was 4 girls in particular before leaving for a new city (Calgary)
April
1 - Picked up this chick doing door-to-door work
May-June
1 - I started dating a girl... lasted a bit into June
July
2 - My roommate tells me that if you dn't get laid at stampede your either gay or not trying... I picked up 2 chicks that night (one for my roommate) but he screwed that up...
August
1 - My roommates had a 3 way blind date. I told them we just needed to find out which place we're going to bang... when 1 of them told me not to think that way I had to prove him wrong... the answer : AT HER HOUSE
Sept-October
Found out I had chlamydia, so I had to go a month and a half without.
November -Dec
Tag on another 2
Friggin hell... I didn't even realize I plowed 19 girls in 2005.... plus 1 VD
New Years Day :
2 (actually, 1 because the second was about 4 hours before the new year)
Jan - End of Feb
7 Between myself and my roomate we plowed through at least 1 chick each per weekend.
March
3 - My goal was 4 girls in particular before leaving for a new city (Calgary)
April
1 - Picked up this chick doing door-to-door work
May-June
1 - I started dating a girl... lasted a bit into June
July
2 - My roommate tells me that if you dn't get laid at stampede your either gay or not trying... I picked up 2 chicks that night (one for my roommate) but he screwed that up...
August
1 - My roommates had a 3 way blind date. I told them we just needed to find out which place we're going to bang... when 1 of them told me not to think that way I had to prove him wrong... the answer : AT HER HOUSE
Sept-October
Found out I had chlamydia, so I had to go a month and a half without.
November -Dec
Tag on another 2
Friggin hell... I didn't even realize I plowed 19 girls in 2005.... plus 1 VD
I always thought this question was flawed since quality is a big factor (or rather, it should be!).
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Hot girls you got with. 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Hot girls you got with. 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I see where you're going with this, but to count girls that you 'wanted to get with' is rediculous.Originally posted by Oxide
I always thought this question was flawed since quality is a big factor (or rather, it should be!).
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Girl you actually wanted to get with ( for example, a hot girl in a club or bar) 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
If you meant to count hotties that you've ****ed as +2 and drunk fuglies as -3...
Change my score from 19 to.... approximately 17 a couple of hotties - a couple of lesser women.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
I didn't manage it this year, or the years before that. I may not manage it in 2006 either. But it's fine.
Chances are, I have 50 or 60 years left to make it happen, so I'm not in a big hurry. Plus if you don't do it, does it make you any less of a man?
Right now, the only serious concern I have is that if I'm 40 years old and not married it may hurt me because for some reason, people think married men are somehow more stable or reliable than single men, and thus have a better chance at getting promotions or better jobs. This sort of thinking by others may indirectly hurt my financial standing. However, that is the only serious concern I have.
Granted, I'm curious to know what it's like. But I don't feel like I need it.
If anyone asks me "How come you've been single for all these years?" I can always say "Because I've never found the right one."
Dying a single man won't make me heartbroken. Dying a virgin probably won't make me heartbroken.
Dying a failure will.
Ben
Chances are, I have 50 or 60 years left to make it happen, so I'm not in a big hurry. Plus if you don't do it, does it make you any less of a man?
Right now, the only serious concern I have is that if I'm 40 years old and not married it may hurt me because for some reason, people think married men are somehow more stable or reliable than single men, and thus have a better chance at getting promotions or better jobs. This sort of thinking by others may indirectly hurt my financial standing. However, that is the only serious concern I have.
Granted, I'm curious to know what it's like. But I don't feel like I need it.
If anyone asks me "How come you've been single for all these years?" I can always say "Because I've never found the right one."
Dying a single man won't make me heartbroken. Dying a virgin probably won't make me heartbroken.
Dying a failure will.
Ben
Originally posted by Oxide
I always thought this question was flawed since quality is a big factor (or rather, it should be!).
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Hot girls you got with. 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
If you want to change the scoring system then start your own thread dude. There are no rules or equations on this one. Besides, it's safe to assume that a good 90% of the members on this forum would never f*ck an ugly b!tch. They're trying to get the HBs that they really want, which is one of the main reasons they're apart of this site. If they settled for sh!t, they wouldn't even have time to post on this forum because they'd have too many fat disgusting hoes to f*ck all day.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Awww...you trying to attack me on my own thread you piss ant? Sorry to disappoint you...I was in a relationship this year so I got mines dipsh!t.
First of all "son" I'm 22 soon to be 23.
Secondly, it's funny to see you compare this place to real life. If majority of the members on this forum lowered their standards as much as the average guy in real life does, you wouldn't be reading so many pathetic loser a$$ threads about "trying to get the HB8/9 to stop telling me LJBF".
Lastly, I tried to ask you nicely before, but now just get the f*ck out of my thread.
Keeper
Master Don Juan
3.
2 of those were LTR's.
2 of those were LTR's.
Mr. Unique
Master Don Juan
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Not only are you a troll but your also a SLUT!
Anyways, I banged only one girl, hey im young.
Distant light, im impressed
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
I only sleep with girls that i consider 8 and up.... so for me, there's no change in my score.
Very few guys on here would say I've slept with an ugly girl. The asian chick I banged a few weeks ago was about the lowest I've gone. She had a pretty face and a great body but she was like 4'8'' so it was kinda freaky.
Very few guys on here would say I've slept with an ugly girl. The asian chick I banged a few weeks ago was about the lowest I've gone. She had a pretty face and a great body but she was like 4'8'' so it was kinda freaky.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Lol... with 2 exceptions this year. Every girl I erver get with is 5'3" or less...
The sad part about this poll is that it's essentially irrelevent. I mean, by the standards set out I am a horribly disgusting slut... yet, I know guys that litterally every weekend will sleep with 1-2 girls... yes, that's 4-8 girls a month, with very few repeat servicing. Yes, I **** you not... that's 48- 75 girls in a year (this guy told me that he's been with at least 250 women... but it sucks because he doesn't even know anymore, that sometimes he'll sleep with a 'new woman' but is really just a 'used women' from the year before or something.
Don't think I'm making this up, I've watched the guy in action many times.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
I could be banging 4 girls a week....... anyone could. But, i'm not a dragon slayer.
I don't have supermodel standards but I do date and screw pretty girls. I've never been with a girl who is a 9.999... Most of those ones are trouble, anyways. My average girls are 8.5's to 9. The cute girl next door types who look absolutely gorgeous when they're dressd for an night out but can also loolk sexy in a pnoytail, ballcap and sweat pants. The REAL girls who don't wear tons of makeup.
Everyone's scale is different.
MightyMate
Master Don Juan
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Since i got in LTR i didnt chse many chicks. But before i did i ****ed a few this year. Today i was about to cheat on my girl but didnt do.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I really don't think just ANYONE could get as much action, motivation, and becming sexually satisfied would slow most people down... Really though, that guy that I mention is not about games or anything... just a straight up character that naturally sleeps with a lot of women. I tried discussing game with the guy and all he tells me is "too much planning, I'm just here for fun"
I think you made the mistake that I was talking about hottness when I was talking about height. Most of the girls I end up with aren't terribly hot usually the next day I'd put them at about 6-7's on 10 in hottness, but I LOVE short women.
Anything taller than 5'6' and I'm not even interested at all.
Jesus...here we go again.
All I have to say to that is just take a look at the results man. Majority is falling in the 1 or 2 range, and less than 13% on here were with 6 or more. You call that irrelevant? This poll is ONLY HERE TO REPRESENT THIS FORUM. Guess we can't all be so pimp it's scary.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.