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Don Juan
Originally posted by tseluca
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impressive.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Originally posted by tseluca
12
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
thxOriginally posted by Social Engineering
enjoy your aids...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I see where you're going with this, but to count girls that you 'wanted to get with' is rediculous.Originally posted by Oxide
I always thought this question was flawed since quality is a big factor (or rather, it should be!).
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Girl you actually wanted to get with ( for example, a hot girl in a club or bar) 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
In that case...2+2+2-3=3Originally posted by Oxide
IGirl you actually wanted to get with ( for example, a hot girl in a club or bar) 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
Originally posted by Oxide
I always thought this question was flawed since quality is a big factor (or rather, it should be!).
An older friend of mine was telling me about this way to go about it. I modified it a little, but let's see where you rate now.
EVERY GIRL COUNTS ONLY ONCE.
Hot girls you got with. 2 pts
Girl you had sex with just because she was there. You dont really care about her, nor were you infatuated. 1 point.
Unattractive girl you fvcked because it was the best option. (or you were really drunk) -3 pts.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Awww...you trying to attack me on my own thread you piss ant? Sorry to disappoint you...I was in a relationship this year so I got mines dipsh!t.Originally posted by Oxide
Let me guess, you voted #1
First of all "son" I'm 22 soon to be 23.How old are you son, because in REAL LIFE people lower their standards much more than you think.
Not only are you a troll but your also a SLUT!Originally posted by tseluca
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If they occured in the same year, they probably weren't 'long term'Originally posted by Keeper
3.
2 of those were LTR's.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lol... with 2 exceptions this year. Every girl I erver get with is 5'3" or less...Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
I only sleep with girls that i consider 8 and up.... so for me, there's no change in my score.
Very few guys on here would say I've slept with an ugly girl. The asian chick I banged a few weeks ago was about the lowest I've gone. She had a pretty face and a great body but she was like 4'8'' so it was kinda freaky.
I could be banging 4 girls a week....... anyone could. But, i'm not a dragon slayer.Originally posted by So pimp its scary
Lol... with 2 exceptions this year. Every girl I erver get with is 5'3" or less...
The sad part about this poll is that it's essentially irrelevent. I mean, by the standards set out I am a horribly disgusting slut... yet, I know guys that litterally every weekend will sleep with 1-2 girls... yes, that's 4-8 girls a month, with very few repeat servicing. Yes, I **** you not... that's 48- 75 girls in a year (this guy told me that he's been with at least 250 women... but it sucks because he doesn't even know anymore, that sometimes he'll sleep with a 'new woman' but is really just a 'used women' from the year before or something.
Don't think I'm making this up, I've watched the guy in action many times.
I really don't think just ANYONE could get as much action, motivation, and becming sexually satisfied would slow most people down... Really though, that guy that I mention is not about games or anything... just a straight up character that naturally sleeps with a lot of women. I tried discussing game with the guy and all he tells me is "too much planning, I'm just here for fun"I could be banging 4 girls a week....... anyone could. But, i'm not a dragon slayer.
I don't have supermodel standards but I do date and screw pretty girls. I've never been with a girl who is a 9.999... Most of those ones are trouble, anyways. My average girls are 8.5's to 9. The cute girl next door types who look absolutely gorgeous when they're dressd for an night out but can also loolk sexy in a pnoytail, ballcap and sweat pants. The REAL girls who don't wear tons of makeup.
Everyone's scale is different.
Jesus...here we go again.Originally posted by So pimp its scary
The sad part about this poll is that it's essentially irrelevent. I mean, by the standards set out I am a horribly disgusting slut... yet, I know guys that litterally every weekend will sleep with 1-2 girls... yes, that's 4-8 girls a month, with very few repeat servicing. Yes, I **** you not... that's 48- 75 girls in a year (this guy told me that he's been with at least 250 women... but it sucks because he doesn't even know anymore, that sometimes he'll sleep with a 'new woman' but is really just a 'used women' from the year before or something.
Don't think I'm making this up, I've watched the guy in action many times.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.