escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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I did 9 already in June and all flaked.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
most women will give their number to 3 or 4 dudes a day during the week and 10 or more on the weekend.. thats why as men we experience soo many flakes cause she has to many options so competition factors com into play and luck and timing.. then females can only F so many dudes in a certain time so some have to fall out..escaleraroyal said:I did 9 already in June and all flaked.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
^Could be articulated a little smoother, but I definitely agree.Mr Wright said:This is the kind of thread which is hurtful to most guys. Its just as bad as the "how many girls have you laid"...i believe that if you get one number, its solid and you build a great connection, thats far more impressive than getting 100 flakey pieces of crap from girls you dont even remember or care about. A guy just getting into this will read guys getting 50 odd numbers while hes getting maybe 2-3 and think that hes got to get that many numbers when in reality getting 2-3 numbers is probably good for him.
I swear some guys on here only post to show off and get validation from other guys saying "bro you're so cool you got with that HB10" when in reality she was probably not that hot and he didn't even feel that good about it after but still felt the need to brag about it on the internet.
Numbers are numbers...connections are much better.
haha i know, i never proof read or write anything im one sitting.LE6END said:^Could be articulated a little smoother, but I definitely agree.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.