"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how many # closes you did this month?

pdx1138

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Victory Unlimited said:
Always remember that a girl giving you her number is the same as her giving you a ticket to "stand in line" for the ride. It is NOT the ride itself.

The more we can keep this in mind, the more we're better able to manage our expectations.

VU

So true. Perfect explanation.

I've told one of my buddies who fears rejection, to expect it and just live with it because the more you get rejected the less you care about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alex DeLarge

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Only 1 so far for october and she flaked. I really gotta hit the street! So busy lately though.
 

escaleraroyal

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busy is not an excuse. you are not dedicated. i'm busy everyday but i still go out to get digits.
 
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