Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How many chicks have you slept with?

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70 ish

Who really cares, though. It's just a number. Most people would rather have slept with prime Adriana Lima and megan Fox in '2 and a half men' (17?) and that's it, instead of a 100 count of average looking women.

Also, how much effort did one put into their lay count?! I mean, I guess anyone get get a massive lay count if he spends every spare second swiping and cold approaching, especially if going for girls below him. Or travelling to 3rd world countries etc. (or other 'tricks')

And It's not like it's something to really brag about anyway, in a way. I mean, it's not really a 'skill'. That's why sosuaves sole adivce when it comes to this is basically 'hit the gym more', 'approach more girls', 'make more money'.

Some really really good looking dude is gonna have a high lay count of stunners, AND he likely didn't have to work for it at all. (like my ex wing) - But do we clap for him when he tells us his 400 slay count of mostly teenage models? I mean, it's kind of to be expected when you look at him lol. It would only really be a flex if he was 5ft tall and bald and pulled of regular miracles, but then we know from infields of professional PUA's (presumably the best that exist it this or at least very close) that there is a very real 'ceiling' when it comes to this and they all basically get the results you'd expect and not one has ever come close to blowing my mind with their results
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I’ve counted 83 and I began very young.
I don’t want to go over 100 in my life.

It’s never been my style to rack up notches
It just sort of happened.

The longest relationship I’ve had was 6 years long and I never cheated on her.
I’m a long term relationship type of boyfriend.
 

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Quantity or Quality?
Is not always about how many, but a very important thing to point out is that you often read or hear about LTR's, for over 10/20, or even better, 30/40 years, reporting that their sex is the best it's ever been...

Obviously, these are unique experiences that not everyone of us will be lucky enough to have in life, but it always sounds a bit off to me, considering that for most couples, the relationship might end after just 3 to 5 years. The best sex/love always happens within the first 36 months.

Your thoughts
 

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I truly don’t know. It wasn’t something I considered. I just know that I didn’t want them long, for the most part.
 

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Who really cares, though. It's just a number. Most people would rather have slept with prime Adriana Lima and megan Fox in '2 and a half men' (17?) and that's it, instead of a 100 count of average looking women.

Also, how much effort did one put into their lay count?! I mean, I guess anyone get get a massive lay count if he spends every spare second swiping and cold approaching, especially if going for girls below him. Or travelling to 3rd world countries etc. (or other 'tricks')

And It's not like it's something to really brag about anyway, in a way. I mean, it's not really a 'skill'. That's why sosuaves sole adivce when it comes to this is basically 'hit the gym more', 'approach more girls', 'make more money'.

Some really really good looking dude is gonna have a high lay count of stunners, AND he likely didn't have to work for it at all. (like my ex wing) - But do we clap for him when he tells us his 400 slay count of mostly teenage models? I mean, it's kind of to be expected when you look at him lol. It would only really be a flex if he was 5ft tall and bald and pulled of regular miracles, but then we know from infields of professional PUA's (presumably the best that exist it this or at least very close) that there is a very real 'ceiling' when it comes to this and they all basically get the results you'd expect and not one has ever come close to blowing my mind with their results
Past a certain point it's more about how much of a sex addict/hedonist you are or how much you're trying to prove or how much effort you're putting in.

If a man can fck 50 he could fck 200.
 

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The best answer to this question is the one I got from Chad guy I was dumb enough to ask in a club.

answer -

“maaate,
once I got to 143…..

I stopped counting ;) “

and all super models (for sure). Haha.

Rocco Siffredi the Italian pornstar has claimed 10,000…. I don’t think I’ll beat that fella!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What do yall think is the minimum any man should have just so he doesn't value pvssy too much? Lets say by age 40 and let's also say that fat chicks, oral sex, and sub-5 women don't count.

I think probably 40-50 is reasonable.
 

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There has to be a point system based on quality. Older women, fat women, single mothers, and ugly women don't count. In fact, you are deducted points if you have slept with them.

Hot girl 18-22 100 points
Hot girl 23-26 90 points
Hot girl 27-29 30 points
Hot girl 30+ 8 points
Hot girl 35+ 2.5 points
Hot girl 40+ 0 points

Ugly girl any age -1000 points
Single mother any age -1500 points
Fat girl any age -2500 points

The whole point of Sosuave is to get HOT YOUNG girls.

You come in here and say "I've slept with 40 women. 25 single mothers, 10 ugly, 10 fat" You've slept NO women.
 

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There has to be a point system based on quality. Older women, fat women, single mothers, and ugly women don't count. In fact, you are deducted points if you have slept with them.

Hot girl 18-22 100 points
Hot girl 23-26 90 points
Hot girl 27-29 30 points
Hot girl 30+ 8 points
Hot girl 35+ 2.5 points
Hot girl 40+ 0 points

Ugly girl any age -1000 points
Single mother any age -1500 points
Fat girl any age -2500 points

The whole point of Sosuave is to get HOT YOUNG girls.

You come in here and say "I've slept with 40 women. 25 single mothers, 10 ugly, 10 fat" You've slept NO women.
over 35 doesn't count either unless you're 50+
 

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There has to be a point system based on quality. Older women, fat women, single mothers, and ugly women don't count. In fact, you are deducted points if you have slept with them.

Hot girl 18-22 100 points
Hot girl 23-26 90 points
Hot girl 27-29 30 points
Hot girl 30+ 8 points
Hot girl 35+ 2.5 points
Hot girl 40+ 0 points

Ugly girl any age -1000 points
Single mother any age -1500 points
Fat girl any age -2500 points

The whole point of Sosuave is to get HOT YOUNG girls.

You come in here and say "I've slept with 40 women. 25 single mothers, 10 ugly, 10 fat" You've slept NO women.
If that's your ultimate goal in life, I feel sorry for you.
 

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Mmm hmm back when I'us a youngin my Memaw would put me in the hen shed and I reckon since dey already hatched it be ok to count em. By golly there was at least 436 in there and I was never so happy in my life mmm hmm. My Memaw made me eat nuggets but by golly I couldn't do it, those chicks were so hot and bothered, cackling all the time so I jus eat dem french fried potaters to shut em up. Mmm hmm.

You see I love me chicks but you gots to keep your hands off dem eggs, dey will cackle and bac bac if you do. So just love them, dats da secret.

So 436, y'all try and top that. And don't you think my Memaw wouldn't teach me to tell a liar gud. Mmm hmm.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Has nothing to do with that. As a man, women should always be a secondary pursuit to your goals and ambitions, not the center of the universe.
no one is saying that lol. i might be misunderstanding what you quoted in your post, but to me a notch count is incidental and not much else. i just find it suspect how many guys here are claiming 100 or even 200+ and i would LOVE to see a photo collage of all those chicks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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