Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
In another thread he admits he is clinically schizophrenic. Don't take him seriously. He tries to appear noble but if you look through other threads or if I share screenshots of what he writes in the DMs he's just another nutcase living in isolation.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Haters gonna hate.
Considering your dedication to your path and that you choose to reject women. Would you consider this / yourself "ALPHA"?Haters gonna hate.
But why do you care so much and put so much of your time into trying to Discredit me?
My Holy Book elucidates that people who are guilty of this kind of Conduct are slaves to their Envy; that they resent others who they perceive to excel them in some way. You should read it. You'll get to know who you really are.
That depends on whether or not you consider someone like the Master Jesus as an "alpha", who devoted himself to Enlightening the masses. Most Christians believe he was a virgin his entire life, while skeptics believe he was married and committed to Mary Magdelene, and they had a daughter named Sarah together. Whichever is the Truth, you can bet most women were highly sexually aroused by him. Yet he refrained from letting them seduce him. Then maybe I am. But if an "alpha" is a man who devotes his life to fornicating with as many women as he can, I'm certainly not one.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
As mentioned, I don't think of you unless a notification reminds me of you here. What I give is preventual medicine before some desperate guy starts following a schizo. Dysfunction only begets dysfunction. There is nothing holy about a 40 year old masturbator lurking on a PUA forum insulting faceless strangers he will never see.Haters gonna hate.
But why do you care so much and put so much of your time into trying to Discredit me?
My Holy Book elucidates that people who are guilty of this kind of Conduct are slaves to their Envy; that they resent others who they perceive to excel them in some way. You should read it. You'll get to know who you really are.
Why are you so condemning and prejudiced against someone who has a mental illness (for which treatment has been successfully received)? Have you ever even met someone with schizophrenia? Do you have any experiential knowledge at all upon which to base your highly negative and demeaning assumptions and conclusions about us?
I'm glad to see ya love me.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So what brings you to a forum dedicated to “fornicating with as many women as possible”?. But if an "alpha" is a man who devotes his life to fornicating with as many women as he can, I'm certainly not one.
I was just asked that. If you scroll a few messages higher, you will find my answer.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
