"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How many chicks have you slept with?

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Question... If you're intentionally celibate and choosing void of women in order to dedicate your life to a greater good.

Why do you devote so much time on a pick up forum?
In another thread he admits he is clinically schizophrenic. Don't take him seriously. He tries to appear noble but if you look through other threads or if I share screenshots of what he writes in the DMs he's just another nutcase living in isolation.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm guessing something between 200 to 300. I have no clue and I wonder how you guys keep score. In a book?

At my prime I slept with 5 different girls in a single week.
- I was above average in lifestyle. I had my own place and a nice car while the competition had none. It's different taking a girl to your place than holding hands in front of their parents house.
- Even though I'm below average in height, everybody says I have a very symmetrical face. I guess I'm not bad looking.
- I travel a lot. Not living exclusively in the States makes things easier.
- I look 10-15 younger so I always had more "game" than the next guy I was competing. At 28 (my prime) I was competing with 20yo kids for the 18yo girls.

With the info above I'm pointing the fact that variables will give you better opportunities. If you live in a farm in Kansas, it doesn't matter how good looking or game you have. Your numbers will be low.
 

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In another thread he admits he is clinically schizophrenic. Don't take him seriously. He tries to appear noble but if you look through other threads or if I share screenshots of what he writes in the DMs he's just another nutcase living in isolation.
Haters gonna hate. :rolleyes:

But why do you care so much and put so much of your time into trying to Discredit me?

My Holy Book elucidates that people who are guilty of this kind of Conduct are slaves to their Envy; that they resent others who they perceive to excel them in some way. You should read it. You'll get to know who you really are.
 

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Haters gonna hate. :rolleyes:

But why do you care so much and put so much of your time into trying to Discredit me?

My Holy Book elucidates that people who are guilty of this kind of Conduct are slaves to their Envy; that they resent others who they perceive to excel them in some way. You should read it. You'll get to know who you really are.
Considering your dedication to your path and that you choose to reject women. Would you consider this / yourself "ALPHA"?
 

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Considering your dedication to your path and that you choose to reject women. Would you consider this / yourself "ALPHA"?
That depends on whether or not you consider someone like the Master Jesus as an "alpha", who devoted himself to Enlightening the masses. Most Christians believe he was a virgin his entire life, while skeptics believe he was married and committed to Mary Magdelene, and they had a daughter named Sarah together. Whichever is the Truth, you can bet most women were highly sexually aroused by him. Yet he refrained from letting them seduce him. Then maybe I am. But if an "alpha" is a man who devotes his life to fornicating with as many women as he can, I'm certainly not one. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Haters gonna hate. :rolleyes:

But why do you care so much and put so much of your time into trying to Discredit me?

My Holy Book elucidates that people who are guilty of this kind of Conduct are slaves to their Envy; that they resent others who they perceive to excel them in some way. You should read it. You'll get to know who you really are.
As mentioned, I don't think of you unless a notification reminds me of you here. What I give is preventual medicine before some desperate guy starts following a schizo. Dysfunction only begets dysfunction. There is nothing holy about a 40 year old masturbator lurking on a PUA forum insulting faceless strangers he will never see.
 

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As mentioned, I don't think of you unless a notification reminds me of you here. What I give is preventual medicine before some desperate guy starts following a schizo. Dysfunction only begets dysfunction. There is nothing holy about a 40 year old masturbator lurking on a PUA forum insulting faceless strangers he will never see.
Why are you so condemning and prejudiced against someone who has a mental illness (for which treatment has been successfully received)? Have you ever even met someone with schizophrenia? Do you have any experiential knowledge at all upon which to base your highly negative and demeaning assumptions and conclusions about us?

You claim my Religion will be unsuccessful because of my condition, and that no one with schizophrenia has ever amounted to anything; therefore, my failure is inevitable. But once again, this just demonstrates your ignorance on the matter. Look at Vincent Von Gogh. He's revered for his success as a revolutionary painter! Look at L. Ron Hubbard. Though his Religion is a scam, it is now worth 2 billion, meanwhile the Catholic Church (which has been around much, much longer) is worth 4 billion! Look at Syd Barrett. He started the most famous and beloved psychedelic rock band, Pink Floyd, which broke records ten times over for its "Dark Side of the Moon" album! Look at John Nash. He made astounding contributions to mathematics, and a movie was even made about his life ("A Beautiful Mind", which won numerous awards)! The list goes on.

All schizophrenics!

Get your facts, before you make any more uninformed snap-judgments.
 
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To anyone who cares, if you want to find me now, I'll be getting this account disabled and using an old, abandoned account: @Kynan.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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. But if an "alpha" is a man who devotes his life to fornicating with as many women as he can, I'm certainly not one. :)
So what brings you to a forum dedicated to “fornicating with as many women as possible”?

Just wondering.
 

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Stopped counting in Germany when I was 23. Probably like 5-600 if I had to guess. Spent 10 years married with a handful of affairs each year. Otherwise it’d be significantly higher.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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41.... while 35 of these happened in a 10 year timeframe, if i had made a sport out of it i guess it could be double that number.
 

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About 90 now. Heavily concentrated in certain periods.
 

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I think it's funny this is a sticky thread. I guess comparing ourselves with others must not be so bad, eh?

I like Syd Barrett. Van Gogh too.
 

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Idk how people can count. It's up there up there.. something between 90-120 id say
 

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I don't understand these claims of having been with hundreds of women, how is that even possible? The only way I could see something like this ever being a reality is if you are a celebrity or are paying for sex regularly. For real world non paid for examples, you'd have to be dumpster diving with very low standards, no way any man has time for something like that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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