How long is too long?

[Blood Angel]

Just out of curiosity - in your opinion, how long can you wait to call a girl who gave you her number before calling her up isn't really an option anymore?

I ask because I managed to get my first number from a cold approach rockon: ) maybe three weeks ago now. I knew the girl already from elementary school (and we attended the same high school, though we'd never been close), but I've yet to get in touch with her.

So is it worth calling her up, or should I not bother?

Thanks!

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

Let's say I get a number on a Friday night, I'll give myself until Sunday the following week to call. If I haven't called by then, then I must not have been that interested in the first place.

I almost never take a number unless it's either a)offered or b)I fully intend to call mid-week the following week or that coming weekend.

 

[cola]

Just out of curiosity - in your opinion, how long can you wait to call a girl who gave you her number before calling her up isn't really an option anymore?

I ask because I managed to get my first number from a cold approach rockon: ) maybe three weeks ago now. I knew the girl already from elementary school (and we attended the same high school, though we'd never been close), but I've yet to get in touch with her.

So is it worth calling her up, or should I not bother?

Thanks!

Stop following these stupid rules. You call her when you have time. If its 3 weeks later or 3 months later..

 

[Ease]

sounds very long.

3-5 days is usually a good amount of time.

But from a cold approach you might want to build some more rapport before u ask out for a first meet, so keep in mind.

 

[Blood Angel]

Stop following these stupid rules. You call her when you have time. If its 3 weeks later or 3 months later..

I was asking because I wasn't sure if it'd make her uncomfortable or something.

 

[Al Moh.]

Don't turn this into rocket-science. So you still want to get in touch with her? Then call her, the worst she can do is hang up on you and you will not see her again. If you don't call at all you walk right into the worst case scenario.