"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How long is too long?

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Just out of curiosity - in your opinion, how long can you wait to call a girl who gave you her number before calling her up isn't really an option anymore?

I ask because I managed to get my first number from a cold approach :)rockon: ) maybe three weeks ago now. I knew the girl already from elementary school (and we attended the same high school, though we'd never been close), but I've yet to get in touch with her.

So is it worth calling her up, or should I not bother?

Thanks!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let's say I get a number on a Friday night, I'll give myself until Sunday the following week to call. If I haven't called by then, then I must not have been that interested in the first place.

I almost never take a number unless it's either a)offered or b)I fully intend to call mid-week the following week or that coming weekend.
 
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Blood Angel said:
Just out of curiosity - in your opinion, how long can you wait to call a girl who gave you her number before calling her up isn't really an option anymore?

I ask because I managed to get my first number from a cold approach :)rockon: ) maybe three weeks ago now. I knew the girl already from elementary school (and we attended the same high school, though we'd never been close), but I've yet to get in touch with her.

So is it worth calling her up, or should I not bother?

Thanks!
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Stop following these stupid rules. You call her when you have time. If its 3 weeks later or 3 months later..
 
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sounds very long.

3-5 days is usually a good amount of time.

But from a cold approach you might want to build some more rapport before u ask out for a first meet, so keep in mind.
 
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cola said:
Stop following these stupid rules. You call her when you have time. If its 3 weeks later or 3 months later..
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I was asking because I wasn't sure if it'd make her uncomfortable or something.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't turn this into rocket-science. So you still want to get in touch with her? Then call her, the worst she can do is hang up on you and you will not see her again. If you don't call at all you walk right into the worst case scenario.
 
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