"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DAY 3

Man...at night day 2 was hard. I came so close to cumming cuz I was rubbing it thinking of...uh...someone. Anyways, I was like, SH1T! So I took a sh1t, still kinda played with it, but stopped after I **** cuz I was tired. Close call.

Day 3 has begun....its getting pretty hot/humid in here. And I wanna put on some more comforatble clothes like my PJ shorts and t-shirt which gives me easy access. BUT I MUST SWEAT. RRRRAAAAWWW!!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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19 full days

horny as ****

last night i actually had a very intelligent dream. i'm chuffed. basically took the holy piss out of some people in it

afk and others, i'm laughing at you struggling...me being all high and mighty; but it's worth it in the longrun. just get to day 6 and the mere fact that you've gone 6 days will make you think "there's no way i'm gonna cvm now otherwise i'll have gone this far for nothing"

and for any of you that haven't whacked in a while, has your flacid length increased? i'm 14cm flacid just now and i'm not black
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HOLY **** GAV!!!

HOLY SH1T GAV!! Er...just curious, how much did it increase lol. I've noticed my **** flaccid length grew a bit. Like...it used to shrink and stuff when its cold lol, but now barely. At least when I was a kid....

Anywho, I almost did it again today...goddam SI swimsuit...

day 4 here i come baby.
 

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One time I was visiting my brother at college and trying hard not to masturbate.

Then, in his trash I saw a copy of SI Swimsuit...nothing has ever made me so horny as that edition.

Anyway, day five is the hardest. Day 6 and on is easy.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
Well, I broke at 8 days. Since then I haven't felt the need to do it at all, so maybe releasing it once in a very long while makes it easier to go longer without doing it.

Not sure if anybody understood that...it's late.
Since Sammo's post, i have been limiting myself to two days a week max. And yes, I feel the exact same way. But the urge does get back after 3-4 days :(
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i'm almost certain that my facial expression has changed. i don't look the way i did last month at all; i look much more focussed, determined and masculine.

other factors may add to this, like my new weightlifting and eating patterns, but i feel as if it's the horniness from not spanking it that is the real cause.
 

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I was on a 3+ week run not too long ago. Then I just said **** it and jerked.

I'm on the 3rd week this time - about day 18.

it's not hard at all to stop, what's wrong with you guys? :D
 

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Day 17..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I can go forever! (Swallows cyanide)
 

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day 23... had one of those near-cvmming performances last night again; reason...girls were about and i felt like a poof cuz i wasn't attracted to any of them, even though one was flashing and the others were pretty hot.

anyways, my horniness has fluctuated like the size of my d!ck. one minute i'm thinking about seriously calling up an ex; next minute i feel like a monk
 
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I cant go very long without masturbating.

damn I am wacking off as I type this
 

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Coming up on Week 3 this Monday..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok I did 6 days. Longest so far not counting before I knew what masturbation was. lol.

Day 1 over now. I'm starting over. I felt guilty as hell after cumming. I tried to stop....goddam....but eh. I learned from this failure.

DONT RUB YOUR **** WITH A SI MAG OPEN. lol

I also learned that as motivation, I can use, very effectively, a girl! She's just .... i dunno. This isn't oneitis, cuz I don't realyl care. But I'm just using her as a way to stop me from whacking off. Not that she's ugly. she definitely isn't. I dunno....its a personal thing.
 

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What do blue balls feel like?
 

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I went 3 months without masturbating, and when I finally did I found out that it caused me to bleed internally from all of the pressure building up inside and all that shot out was this bloody mess. Scared the hell out of me. I went to see a doctor and the nurse looked at me funny when I told her that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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