"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DAY 3

Man...at night day 2 was hard. I came so close to cumming cuz I was rubbing it thinking of...uh...someone. Anyways, I was like, SH1T! So I took a sh1t, still kinda played with it, but stopped after I **** cuz I was tired. Close call.

Day 3 has begun....its getting pretty hot/humid in here. And I wanna put on some more comforatble clothes like my PJ shorts and t-shirt which gives me easy access. BUT I MUST SWEAT. RRRRAAAAWWW!!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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19 full days

horny as ****

last night i actually had a very intelligent dream. i'm chuffed. basically took the holy piss out of some people in it

afk and others, i'm laughing at you struggling...me being all high and mighty; but it's worth it in the longrun. just get to day 6 and the mere fact that you've gone 6 days will make you think "there's no way i'm gonna cvm now otherwise i'll have gone this far for nothing"

and for any of you that haven't whacked in a while, has your flacid length increased? i'm 14cm flacid just now and i'm not black
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HOLY **** GAV!!!

HOLY SH1T GAV!! Er...just curious, how much did it increase lol. I've noticed my **** flaccid length grew a bit. Like...it used to shrink and stuff when its cold lol, but now barely. At least when I was a kid....

Anywho, I almost did it again today...goddam SI swimsuit...

day 4 here i come baby.
 

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One time I was visiting my brother at college and trying hard not to masturbate.

Then, in his trash I saw a copy of SI Swimsuit...nothing has ever made me so horny as that edition.

Anyway, day five is the hardest. Day 6 and on is easy.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
Well, I broke at 8 days. Since then I haven't felt the need to do it at all, so maybe releasing it once in a very long while makes it easier to go longer without doing it.

Not sure if anybody understood that...it's late.
Since Sammo's post, i have been limiting myself to two days a week max. And yes, I feel the exact same way. But the urge does get back after 3-4 days :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i'm almost certain that my facial expression has changed. i don't look the way i did last month at all; i look much more focussed, determined and masculine.

other factors may add to this, like my new weightlifting and eating patterns, but i feel as if it's the horniness from not spanking it that is the real cause.
 

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I was on a 3+ week run not too long ago. Then I just said **** it and jerked.

I'm on the 3rd week this time - about day 18.

it's not hard at all to stop, what's wrong with you guys? :D
 

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Day 17..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I can go forever! (Swallows cyanide)
 

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day 23... had one of those near-cvmming performances last night again; reason...girls were about and i felt like a poof cuz i wasn't attracted to any of them, even though one was flashing and the others were pretty hot.

anyways, my horniness has fluctuated like the size of my d!ck. one minute i'm thinking about seriously calling up an ex; next minute i feel like a monk
 
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I cant go very long without masturbating.

damn I am wacking off as I type this
 

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Coming up on Week 3 this Monday..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok I did 6 days. Longest so far not counting before I knew what masturbation was. lol.

Day 1 over now. I'm starting over. I felt guilty as hell after cumming. I tried to stop....goddam....but eh. I learned from this failure.

DONT RUB YOUR **** WITH A SI MAG OPEN. lol

I also learned that as motivation, I can use, very effectively, a girl! She's just .... i dunno. This isn't oneitis, cuz I don't realyl care. But I'm just using her as a way to stop me from whacking off. Not that she's ugly. she definitely isn't. I dunno....its a personal thing.
 

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What do blue balls feel like?
 

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I went 3 months without masturbating, and when I finally did I found out that it caused me to bleed internally from all of the pressure building up inside and all that shot out was this bloody mess. Scared the hell out of me. I went to see a doctor and the nurse looked at me funny when I told her that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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