“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How hard is this combination to find in a woman?

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- NO TATTS
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- pleasant
- sexually receptive to her man's physical needs
 

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You’re looking for something even less believable than a unicorn: Mormon heaven.

If I recall correctly from watching Mormon cartoons on YouTube and such, when a man dies he goes to heaven and must call forth a woman from the grave to be with him in heaven. The man then has endless celestial sex with said woman and souls birthed from her babydumper then populate the earth. She literally becomes a breeder popping out souls for the rest of eternity.
 

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There's tons of women out there like that. You have a bad mentality, as evidenced by your posts, and you're looking in the wrong places as a result. Why don't you spend time away from the internet for a while and go outside and talk to real people. I'm not trying to insult you, I'm saying this for your own well-being.

Depends on your age.
Not really. Why do you have a weird obsession with aging? I get that there is the social stigma and the social proof issue, but that's not enough to impede someone.
 

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There's tons of women out there like that. You have a bad mentality, as evidenced by your posts, and you're looking in the wrong places as a result. Why don't you spend time away from the internet for a while and go outside and talk to real people. I'm not trying to insult you, I'm saying this for your own well-being.



Not really. Why do you have a weird obsession with aging? I get that there is the social stigma and the social proof issue, but that's not enough to impede someone.
Because I live in reality, not Wonderland.
 

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Because I live in reality, not Wonderland.
I don't think so. Weeks ago you said that maturity is about conforming to other people's expectations essentially, I pointed that out and you couldn't explain that clearly.

If you are having trouble explaining something logically, it means that you don't understand it well.
 
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@MatureDJ "How hard is this combination to find in a woman?"

When a fella mistakes clogging a message board with "It's over for (Inser)Cels" and "This harridan is so f-c-ed up" threads.for a hobby? Snagging a slice of ANY cooter is more impossible than persuading a Creationist that their forbearers didn't ride a Tyranosaurus across The Gobi Desert and back
 

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I don't think so. Weeks ago you said that maturity is about conforming to other people's expectations essentially, I pointed that out and you couldn't explain that clearly.

If you are having trouble explaining something logically, it means that you don't understand it well.
Sure buddy. Keep talking yourself in circles.
 

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For a man with your outlook, I'd say its very difficult.

Captain Google says that 56% of women from 18-29 have tats. Maybe give them a pass on that if they are discrete.
 

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Captain Google says that 56% of women from 18-29 have tats. Maybe give them a pass on that if they are discrete.
Frankly, a fella will locate an officer in The New Orleans PD WHO ISN'T on the take, long before he runs across a woman with 0 fat on her also. Human bodies in RL aren't airbrushed
 

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Sure buddy. Keep talking yourself in circles.
You should be thanking me for pointing that out to you.

I think it's something like, "life is hard, and even harder when you're dumb"
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The last two qualifications are going to be your major sticking points. The other ones I would say exist in droves. However, the last two points are ones that may exist at the onset of the relationship (whatever it is, plate or LTR) but will decrease over time to the point of being non-existent. Familiarity breeds contempt as they say. Even the "best" women's desire to be sexually receptive and pleasant will lessen over time, and the vast majority of women exponentially so.
 

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You should be thanking me for pointing that out to you.

I think it's something like, "life is hard, and even harder when you're dumb"
I think it's more like "Life is harder than the frozen concrete of a Buffalo Winter when your team has lost its 4th Superbowl in a row".
 

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I agree with Barrister here, at some point in the relationship you’re going to get tired of one another, pretty much like The Beatles all got sick of one another towards the end of their group run. The key is finding and screening for a quality women with decent character who is just as dedicated at making the whole thing work as you are. You don’t want a Britney Spears, Madonna, or a Taylor Swift either that can drag your butt down and draw unneeded attention in your life. No aim for a humble cute girl like a Nora Jones, Palmy the Thailand singer, Julia Stiles etc. Aim for that type of vibe if you want stability and a nice home to raise kids.
 
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