Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
You forgot to add:- childless
- young enough to have children
- non-smoker
- NO TATTS
- NOT FAT
- NO DEBT
- pleasant
- sexually receptive to her man's physical needs
Depends on your age.- childless
- young enough to have children
- non-smoker
- NO TATTS
- NOT FAT
- NO DEBT
- pleasant
- sexually receptive to her man's physical needs
You’re looking for something even less believable than a unicorn: Mormon heaven.- childless
- young enough to have children
- non-smoker
- NO TATTS
- NOT FAT
- NO DEBT
- pleasant
- sexually receptive to her man's physical needs
There's tons of women out there like that. You have a bad mentality, as evidenced by your posts, and you're looking in the wrong places as a result. Why don't you spend time away from the internet for a while and go outside and talk to real people. I'm not trying to insult you, I'm saying this for your own well-being.- childless
- young enough to have children
- non-smoker
- NO TATTS
- NOT FAT
- NO DEBT
- pleasant
- sexually receptive to her man's physical needs
Not really. Why do you have a weird obsession with aging? I get that there is the social stigma and the social proof issue, but that's not enough to impede someone.Depends on your age.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Remove the "pleasant" part and it's not really that hard.- childless
- young enough to have children
- non-smoker
- NO TATTS
- NOT FAT
- NO DEBT
- pleasant
- sexually receptive to her man's physical needs
Because I live in reality, not Wonderland.There's tons of women out there like that. You have a bad mentality, as evidenced by your posts, and you're looking in the wrong places as a result. Why don't you spend time away from the internet for a while and go outside and talk to real people. I'm not trying to insult you, I'm saying this for your own well-being.
Not really. Why do you have a weird obsession with aging? I get that there is the social stigma and the social proof issue, but that's not enough to impede someone.
I don't think so. Weeks ago you said that maturity is about conforming to other people's expectations essentially, I pointed that out and you couldn't explain that clearly.Because I live in reality, not Wonderland.
Sure buddy. Keep talking yourself in circles.I don't think so. Weeks ago you said that maturity is about conforming to other people's expectations essentially, I pointed that out and you couldn't explain that clearly.
If you are having trouble explaining something logically, it means that you don't understand it well.
For a man with your outlook, I'd say its very difficult.- childless
- young enough to have children
- non-smoker
- NO TATTS
- NOT FAT
- NO DEBT
- pleasant
- sexually receptive to her man's physical needs
Frankly, a fella will locate an officer in The New Orleans PD WHO ISN'T on the take, long before he runs across a woman with 0 fat on her also. Human bodies in RL aren't airbrushedCaptain Google says that 56% of women from 18-29 have tats. Maybe give them a pass on that if they are discrete.
You should be thanking me for pointing that out to you.Sure buddy. Keep talking yourself in circles.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
The last two qualifications are going to be your major sticking points. The other ones I would say exist in droves. However, the last two points are ones that may exist at the onset of the relationship (whatever it is, plate or LTR) but will decrease over time to the point of being non-existent. Familiarity breeds contempt as they say. Even the "best" women's desire to be sexually receptive and pleasant will lessen over time, and the vast majority of women exponentially so.- childless
- young enough to have children
- non-smoker
- NO TATTS
- NOT FAT
- NO DEBT
- pleasant
- sexually receptive to her man's physical needs
I think it's more like "Life is harder than the frozen concrete of a Buffalo Winter when your team has lost its 4th Superbowl in a row".You should be thanking me for pointing that out to you.
I think it's something like, "life is hard, and even harder when you're dumb"