How good is to play the "ignore her" card?

[sam21]

and how often and in which situations is good to play it? and what's the danger about it?

I'm interested in it.

Thank you.

 

[Docs]

You play it in a varity of ways. Why don't you test it out to see what works, what doesn't and reply back with the results over 3 months.

Doing it yourself answers 100% of your questions, for you decide what to do, and you yourself understand the mistakes and successes of action.

Just a few ideas.
~ You play hot/cold to stimulate attraction with a attracted girl in hopes of raising the attraction
~ You play ignore to insane requests on her part (walking away)
~ Whatever else you want to test it on.

 

[reyalp]

i like the "ignore her" card with a little "give everyone else attention but her" thrown in. but then again i enjoy teasing women

 

[sam21]

I like those replies, teasing is out of the blue but that's OK!

Thanks!

Keep posting, it's a nice subject dudes!

 

[BuckwildNYC]

The funny thing is that when a girl really likes you you can do just about anything and she will still like you. I have two friends who are girls. I'm not attracted to them at all but they are in LOVE with me. I'm usually pretty nice to them but I abuse them so they don't get the wrong idea. It's funny cause I think it makes them want me more lol. I dont' return their calls or I'll bust their balls all day and it drives them crazy.

So the ignoring thing will definately work if you've already established some attraction from her. If she's not feeling you then you could probably either ignore her or kiss her ass all day and it won't make much of a difference. Contrary to what many guys on this site say.......... girls usually know the moment they meet you if they want to sleep with you. Now you could always fukk this up by acting like a wuss or a total jackass but a little ignoring never hurt anybody It'll show that you ain't desperate.......... just don't overdue it or it'll look like your playing games. Dealing with women is like walking a tight rope. Lean too far either way and you'll end up flat on your face.

That probaly wasn't too helpful lol. It's just hard. It's like trying to give somebody advice on playing a musical instrument over the internet. Women aren't computers.....you can't just input a code and expect them all to respond the same way. Learning to read their signs is probably the number one thing you can do. Look up in the Bible about body language and that should answer alot of your questions.

 

[Buddhistguy]

Originally posted by BuckwildNYC
The funny thing is that when a girl really likes you you can do just about anything and she will still like you. I have two friends who are girls. I'm not attracted to them at all but they are in LOVE with me. I'm usually pretty nice to them but I abuse them so they don't get the wrong idea. It's funny cause I think it makes them want me more lol. I dont' return their calls or I'll bust their balls all day and it drives them crazy.

So the ignoring thing will definately work if you've already established some attraction from her. If she's not feeling you then you could probably either ignore her or kiss her ass all day and it won't make much of a difference.

Interesting ... I think I have a female friend who may be doing the same thing to me. We have known each other for years, and have both been attracted to each other at the wrong times. She has recently came out of a relationship, and I invited her twice out to movie or show premieres (One of the the perks of my job) but each time, she said she would call me to let me know if she could make it, but has not called me either time. Still trying to work out whether she is trying to ditch me, or whether she is playing hard to get ...

 

[BuckwildNYC]

I hear ya. The thing is that guys are very straight foward. If I don't want a chick........... I don't call her or answer her calls.

Girls on the other hand have a whole other set of things that go on in their heads. "I better not call him, I like him, but I don't want to seem too easy". I mean if she ditched you once I would say she might be playing a game. After twice I think you gotta put her at the back of your list and start focusing on other girls. Or at least pull her card. Let her know you're not gong to accept her flaky behavior. She either has to put up or shut up.