"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How good is to play the "ignore her" card?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Docs
Banned
Doing it yourself answers 100% of your questions, for you decide what to do, and you yourself understand the mistakes and successes of action.
Just a few ideas.
~ You play hot/cold to stimulate attraction with a attracted girl in hopes of raising the attraction
~ You play ignore to insane requests on her part (walking away)
~ Whatever else you want to test it on.
reyalp
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BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
So the ignoring thing will definately work if you've already established some attraction from her. If she's not feeling you then you could probably either ignore her or kiss her ass all day and it won't make much of a difference. Contrary to what many guys on this site say.......... girls usually know the moment they meet you if they want to sleep with you. Now you could always fukk this up by acting like a wuss or a total jackass but a little ignoring never hurt anybody
It'll show that you ain't desperate.......... just don't overdue it or it'll look like your playing games. Dealing with women is like walking a tight rope. Lean too far either way and you'll end up flat on your face.That probaly wasn't too helpful lol. It's just hard. It's like trying to give somebody advice on playing a musical instrument over the internet. Women aren't computers.....you can't just input a code and expect them all to respond the same way. Learning to read their signs is probably the number one thing you can do. Look up in the Bible about body language and that should answer alot of your questions.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Buddhistguy
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Interesting ... I think I have a female friend who may be doing the same thing to me. We have known each other for years, and have both been attracted to each other at the wrong times. She has recently came out of a relationship, and I invited her twice out to movie or show premieres (One of the the perks of my job) but each time, she said she would call me to let me know if she could make it, but has not called me either time. Still trying to work out whether she is trying to ditch me, or whether she is playing hard to get ...
BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
Girls on the other hand have a whole other set of things that go on in their heads. "I better not call him, I like him, but I don't want to seem too easy". I mean if she ditched you once I would say she might be playing a game. After twice I think you gotta put her at the back of your list and start focusing on other girls. Or at least pull her card. Let her know you're not gong to accept her flaky behavior. She either has to put up or shut up.