"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How good is to play the "ignore her" card?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Docs
Banned
Doing it yourself answers 100% of your questions, for you decide what to do, and you yourself understand the mistakes and successes of action.
Just a few ideas.
~ You play hot/cold to stimulate attraction with a attracted girl in hopes of raising the attraction
~ You play ignore to insane requests on her part (walking away)
~ Whatever else you want to test it on.
reyalp
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BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
So the ignoring thing will definately work if you've already established some attraction from her. If she's not feeling you then you could probably either ignore her or kiss her ass all day and it won't make much of a difference. Contrary to what many guys on this site say.......... girls usually know the moment they meet you if they want to sleep with you. Now you could always fukk this up by acting like a wuss or a total jackass but a little ignoring never hurt anybody
It'll show that you ain't desperate.......... just don't overdue it or it'll look like your playing games. Dealing with women is like walking a tight rope. Lean too far either way and you'll end up flat on your face.That probaly wasn't too helpful lol. It's just hard. It's like trying to give somebody advice on playing a musical instrument over the internet. Women aren't computers.....you can't just input a code and expect them all to respond the same way. Learning to read their signs is probably the number one thing you can do. Look up in the Bible about body language and that should answer alot of your questions.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Interesting ... I think I have a female friend who may be doing the same thing to me. We have known each other for years, and have both been attracted to each other at the wrong times. She has recently came out of a relationship, and I invited her twice out to movie or show premieres (One of the the perks of my job) but each time, she said she would call me to let me know if she could make it, but has not called me either time. Still trying to work out whether she is trying to ditch me, or whether she is playing hard to get ...
BuckwildNYC
Senior Don Juan
Girls on the other hand have a whole other set of things that go on in their heads. "I better not call him, I like him, but I don't want to seem too easy". I mean if she ditched you once I would say she might be playing a game. After twice I think you gotta put her at the back of your list and start focusing on other girls. Or at least pull her card. Let her know you're not gong to accept her flaky behavior. She either has to put up or shut up.