touma.akagi
Senior Don Juan
Surprisingly, I've never seen anybody bring this topic up! I myself don't have a whole lot of money and I'd love to hear your thoughts
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How does one date on a tight budget?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Depends on how old you are, where you live, etc.
Generally avoid things that are universally expensive without good payoff like dinner and movies
Go for things that are either cheap (anything free or that only costs a few dollars like a walk in the park, find girls who like to netflix n chill)
Find deals and coupons (groupon could be your friend)
Or things with a good return on investment (things you personally enjoy so you're not wasting money even if you spend a lot, drinks since those get you laid, etc.)
Generally avoid things that are universally expensive without good payoff like dinner and movies
Go for things that are either cheap (anything free or that only costs a few dollars like a walk in the park, find girls who like to netflix n chill)
Find deals and coupons (groupon could be your friend)
Or things with a good return on investment (things you personally enjoy so you're not wasting money even if you spend a lot, drinks since those get you laid, etc.)
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
There should be a thorough write-up on this. Lower price dating is an important part of game because we don't try to lead with our wallets.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Go solo. That should save some dough.
I'd go broke, if I dated my plates. I just see them, when I see them.
Work on that day game. Zero $$$ interactions.
I'd go broke, if I dated my plates. I just see them, when I see them.
Work on that day game. Zero $$$ interactions.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Netflix and chill
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
i bring this topic often
i usually try to get in their home. suprisingly if you chat long with them they will often let you.
if not, take her for a walk but not a boring one. and dont be unnatractive. escalate if she lets you.
jacketrunner
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I have a friend who was starting his own business and was short on money for a while.
Interestingly, he said that cheap date ideas were more effective at getting him laid than expensive ones, bc they required more creativity.
One of his go to moves was to buy a bottle of wine and take her to the park.