touma.akagi
Senior Don Juan
Surprisingly, I've never seen anybody bring this topic up! I myself don't have a whole lot of money and I'd love to hear your thoughts
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How does one date on a tight budget?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Depends on how old you are, where you live, etc.
Generally avoid things that are universally expensive without good payoff like dinner and movies
Go for things that are either cheap (anything free or that only costs a few dollars like a walk in the park, find girls who like to netflix n chill)
Find deals and coupons (groupon could be your friend)
Or things with a good return on investment (things you personally enjoy so you're not wasting money even if you spend a lot, drinks since those get you laid, etc.)
Generally avoid things that are universally expensive without good payoff like dinner and movies
Go for things that are either cheap (anything free or that only costs a few dollars like a walk in the park, find girls who like to netflix n chill)
Find deals and coupons (groupon could be your friend)
Or things with a good return on investment (things you personally enjoy so you're not wasting money even if you spend a lot, drinks since those get you laid, etc.)
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
There should be a thorough write-up on this. Lower price dating is an important part of game because we don't try to lead with our wallets.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Go solo. That should save some dough.
I'd go broke, if I dated my plates. I just see them, when I see them.
Work on that day game. Zero $$$ interactions.
I'd go broke, if I dated my plates. I just see them, when I see them.
Work on that day game. Zero $$$ interactions.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Netflix and chill
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i bring this topic often
i usually try to get in their home. suprisingly if you chat long with them they will often let you.
if not, take her for a walk but not a boring one. and dont be unnatractive. escalate if she lets you.
jacketrunner
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I have a friend who was starting his own business and was short on money for a while.
Interestingly, he said that cheap date ideas were more effective at getting him laid than expensive ones, bc they required more creativity.
One of his go to moves was to buy a bottle of wine and take her to the park.