"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do you rapidly buijd attraction?

SamTheHobit

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Any ideas?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SamTheHobit

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Build*
 

Gangster Of Love

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Why would I or any of the other ladies men here want to tell you the secret on how to quickly and perhaps instantly build attraction? That would instantly leave less of the world's beauties for us!

I suggest you learn, the long way, as that journey is the one that is going to help you learn the experiences you will need to succeed with women and other things. Once you do that, come back, and I can tell you where/how to get the instant magic pill.
 

SamTheHobit

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Dude we are in two different countries, just give me the secret!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SamTheHobit

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I bet the next person to post on this thread is going to try and sell me something.
 

vatoloco

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Flash a stack of benjis* at a woman.

*or whatever currency is used in SA.
 

SamTheHobit

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Rand is used is SA, does anyone have a usefull answer?
 

SamTheHobit

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Does anyone have a usefull answer?
 

Diaforetikos

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Guy, chill. There isn't a magic pill, quick attraction method. There are too many d*MN variables for anyone to give you the guide for quick attraction. Here is some of the crap you need to have well established in your arsenal if you want to gain any attraction from your target:

WIT
CHARM
OUTGOING PERSONALITY
WEALTH
HUMOR
BE AROUND WOMEN FRIENDS
CONFIDENCE
SOCIAL AWARENESS
APPEARANCE
STATUS

You need to have a deep understanding of these things, then learn which ones suit you the best, improve on some of your weaknesses, and then hopefully, have enough competence to flirt and attract a girl.

That takes time, so shut yours and get to work.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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49au

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Just tell a woman that you have an abnormally large penis.
 

SamTheHobit

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49au said:
Just tell a woman that you have an abnormally large penis.
lol lol lol lol
 

loveshogun

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Uh, guys, aren't we forgetting about the October Man?
 

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If there was a way to do that, we'd all be doing it right now and sites like this wouldn't exist.

Personality comes only after the woman is attracted to you. If you can get plastic surgery to become super handsome, or you don't have a lot of money, you've got work to do. Personality doesn't attract women. Only keeps them.

PUA's selling stuff say that looks don't matter because they're selling false hope. Don't buy into that sh*t. If you want to, download the torrent file. It's free.

Money attracts golddiggers who will fantasize about a better looking man.
 
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