SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Any ideas?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How do you rapidly buijd attraction?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
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Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Why would I or any of the other ladies men here want to tell you the secret on how to quickly and perhaps instantly build attraction? That would instantly leave less of the world's beauties for us!
I suggest you learn, the long way, as that journey is the one that is going to help you learn the experiences you will need to succeed with women and other things. Once you do that, come back, and I can tell you where/how to get the instant magic pill.
I suggest you learn, the long way, as that journey is the one that is going to help you learn the experiences you will need to succeed with women and other things. Once you do that, come back, and I can tell you where/how to get the instant magic pill.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Dude we are in two different countries, just give me the secret!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
I bet the next person to post on this thread is going to try and sell me something.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Rand is used is SA, does anyone have a usefull answer?
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Does anyone have a usefull answer?
Diaforetikos
Senior Don Juan
Guy, chill. There isn't a magic pill, quick attraction method. There are too many d*MN variables for anyone to give you the guide for quick attraction. Here is some of the crap you need to have well established in your arsenal if you want to gain any attraction from your target:
WIT
CHARM
OUTGOING PERSONALITY
WEALTH
HUMOR
BE AROUND WOMEN FRIENDS
CONFIDENCE
SOCIAL AWARENESS
APPEARANCE
STATUS
You need to have a deep understanding of these things, then learn which ones suit you the best, improve on some of your weaknesses, and then hopefully, have enough competence to flirt and attract a girl.
That takes time, so shut yours and get to work.
WIT
CHARM
OUTGOING PERSONALITY
WEALTH
HUMOR
BE AROUND WOMEN FRIENDS
CONFIDENCE
SOCIAL AWARENESS
APPEARANCE
STATUS
You need to have a deep understanding of these things, then learn which ones suit you the best, improve on some of your weaknesses, and then hopefully, have enough competence to flirt and attract a girl.
That takes time, so shut yours and get to work.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
lol lol lol lol49au said:
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Uh, guys, aren't we forgetting about the October Man?
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If there was a way to do that, we'd all be doing it right now and sites like this wouldn't exist.
Personality comes only after the woman is attracted to you. If you can get plastic surgery to become super handsome, or you don't have a lot of money, you've got work to do. Personality doesn't attract women. Only keeps them.
PUA's selling stuff say that looks don't matter because they're selling false hope. Don't buy into that sh*t. If you want to, download the torrent file. It's free.
Money attracts golddiggers who will fantasize about a better looking man.
Personality comes only after the woman is attracted to you. If you can get plastic surgery to become super handsome, or you don't have a lot of money, you've got work to do. Personality doesn't attract women. Only keeps them.
PUA's selling stuff say that looks don't matter because they're selling false hope. Don't buy into that sh*t. If you want to, download the torrent file. It's free.
Money attracts golddiggers who will fantasize about a better looking man.