SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Any ideas?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How do you rapidly buijd attraction?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
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Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Why would I or any of the other ladies men here want to tell you the secret on how to quickly and perhaps instantly build attraction? That would instantly leave less of the world's beauties for us!
I suggest you learn, the long way, as that journey is the one that is going to help you learn the experiences you will need to succeed with women and other things. Once you do that, come back, and I can tell you where/how to get the instant magic pill.
I suggest you learn, the long way, as that journey is the one that is going to help you learn the experiences you will need to succeed with women and other things. Once you do that, come back, and I can tell you where/how to get the instant magic pill.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Dude we are in two different countries, just give me the secret!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
I bet the next person to post on this thread is going to try and sell me something.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Rand is used is SA, does anyone have a usefull answer?
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Does anyone have a usefull answer?
Diaforetikos
Senior Don Juan
Guy, chill. There isn't a magic pill, quick attraction method. There are too many d*MN variables for anyone to give you the guide for quick attraction. Here is some of the crap you need to have well established in your arsenal if you want to gain any attraction from your target:
WIT
CHARM
OUTGOING PERSONALITY
WEALTH
HUMOR
BE AROUND WOMEN FRIENDS
CONFIDENCE
SOCIAL AWARENESS
APPEARANCE
STATUS
You need to have a deep understanding of these things, then learn which ones suit you the best, improve on some of your weaknesses, and then hopefully, have enough competence to flirt and attract a girl.
That takes time, so shut yours and get to work.
WIT
CHARM
OUTGOING PERSONALITY
WEALTH
HUMOR
BE AROUND WOMEN FRIENDS
CONFIDENCE
SOCIAL AWARENESS
APPEARANCE
STATUS
You need to have a deep understanding of these things, then learn which ones suit you the best, improve on some of your weaknesses, and then hopefully, have enough competence to flirt and attract a girl.
That takes time, so shut yours and get to work.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
lol lol lol lol49au said:
loveshogun
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Uh, guys, aren't we forgetting about the October Man?
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If there was a way to do that, we'd all be doing it right now and sites like this wouldn't exist.
Personality comes only after the woman is attracted to you. If you can get plastic surgery to become super handsome, or you don't have a lot of money, you've got work to do. Personality doesn't attract women. Only keeps them.
PUA's selling stuff say that looks don't matter because they're selling false hope. Don't buy into that sh*t. If you want to, download the torrent file. It's free.
Money attracts golddiggers who will fantasize about a better looking man.
Personality comes only after the woman is attracted to you. If you can get plastic surgery to become super handsome, or you don't have a lot of money, you've got work to do. Personality doesn't attract women. Only keeps them.
PUA's selling stuff say that looks don't matter because they're selling false hope. Don't buy into that sh*t. If you want to, download the torrent file. It's free.
Money attracts golddiggers who will fantasize about a better looking man.