SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Any ideas?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How do you rapidly buijd attraction?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
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Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Why would I or any of the other ladies men here want to tell you the secret on how to quickly and perhaps instantly build attraction? That would instantly leave less of the world's beauties for us!
I suggest you learn, the long way, as that journey is the one that is going to help you learn the experiences you will need to succeed with women and other things. Once you do that, come back, and I can tell you where/how to get the instant magic pill.
I suggest you learn, the long way, as that journey is the one that is going to help you learn the experiences you will need to succeed with women and other things. Once you do that, come back, and I can tell you where/how to get the instant magic pill.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Dude we are in two different countries, just give me the secret!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
I bet the next person to post on this thread is going to try and sell me something.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Rand is used is SA, does anyone have a usefull answer?
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Does anyone have a usefull answer?
Diaforetikos
Senior Don Juan
Guy, chill. There isn't a magic pill, quick attraction method. There are too many d*MN variables for anyone to give you the guide for quick attraction. Here is some of the crap you need to have well established in your arsenal if you want to gain any attraction from your target:
WIT
CHARM
OUTGOING PERSONALITY
WEALTH
HUMOR
BE AROUND WOMEN FRIENDS
CONFIDENCE
SOCIAL AWARENESS
APPEARANCE
STATUS
You need to have a deep understanding of these things, then learn which ones suit you the best, improve on some of your weaknesses, and then hopefully, have enough competence to flirt and attract a girl.
That takes time, so shut yours and get to work.
WIT
CHARM
OUTGOING PERSONALITY
WEALTH
HUMOR
BE AROUND WOMEN FRIENDS
CONFIDENCE
SOCIAL AWARENESS
APPEARANCE
STATUS
You need to have a deep understanding of these things, then learn which ones suit you the best, improve on some of your weaknesses, and then hopefully, have enough competence to flirt and attract a girl.
That takes time, so shut yours and get to work.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
lol lol lol lol49au said:
loveshogun
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Uh, guys, aren't we forgetting about the October Man?
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If there was a way to do that, we'd all be doing it right now and sites like this wouldn't exist.
Personality comes only after the woman is attracted to you. If you can get plastic surgery to become super handsome, or you don't have a lot of money, you've got work to do. Personality doesn't attract women. Only keeps them.
PUA's selling stuff say that looks don't matter because they're selling false hope. Don't buy into that sh*t. If you want to, download the torrent file. It's free.
Money attracts golddiggers who will fantasize about a better looking man.
Personality comes only after the woman is attracted to you. If you can get plastic surgery to become super handsome, or you don't have a lot of money, you've got work to do. Personality doesn't attract women. Only keeps them.
PUA's selling stuff say that looks don't matter because they're selling false hope. Don't buy into that sh*t. If you want to, download the torrent file. It's free.
Money attracts golddiggers who will fantasize about a better looking man.