"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you rapidly buijd attraction?

SamTheHobit

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Any ideas?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Build*
 

Gangster Of Love

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Why would I or any of the other ladies men here want to tell you the secret on how to quickly and perhaps instantly build attraction? That would instantly leave less of the world's beauties for us!

I suggest you learn, the long way, as that journey is the one that is going to help you learn the experiences you will need to succeed with women and other things. Once you do that, come back, and I can tell you where/how to get the instant magic pill.
 

SamTheHobit

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Dude we are in two different countries, just give me the secret!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SamTheHobit

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I bet the next person to post on this thread is going to try and sell me something.
 

vatoloco

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Flash a stack of benjis* at a woman.

*or whatever currency is used in SA.
 

SamTheHobit

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Rand is used is SA, does anyone have a usefull answer?
 

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Does anyone have a usefull answer?
 

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Guy, chill. There isn't a magic pill, quick attraction method. There are too many d*MN variables for anyone to give you the guide for quick attraction. Here is some of the crap you need to have well established in your arsenal if you want to gain any attraction from your target:

WIT
CHARM
OUTGOING PERSONALITY
WEALTH
HUMOR
BE AROUND WOMEN FRIENDS
CONFIDENCE
SOCIAL AWARENESS
APPEARANCE
STATUS

You need to have a deep understanding of these things, then learn which ones suit you the best, improve on some of your weaknesses, and then hopefully, have enough competence to flirt and attract a girl.

That takes time, so shut yours and get to work.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just tell a woman that you have an abnormally large penis.
 

SamTheHobit

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49au said:
Just tell a woman that you have an abnormally large penis.
lol lol lol lol
 

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Uh, guys, aren't we forgetting about the October Man?
 

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If there was a way to do that, we'd all be doing it right now and sites like this wouldn't exist.

Personality comes only after the woman is attracted to you. If you can get plastic surgery to become super handsome, or you don't have a lot of money, you've got work to do. Personality doesn't attract women. Only keeps them.

PUA's selling stuff say that looks don't matter because they're selling false hope. Don't buy into that sh*t. If you want to, download the torrent file. It's free.

Money attracts golddiggers who will fantasize about a better looking man.
 
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