WatchMeWalk
Senior Don Juan
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How do you know when your Alpha?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"How do you know when you are Alpha?"
When you don't have to ask.
Not an insult but its true. An Alpha doesn't give a shyt about whether he's Alpha. He just knows it and doesn't give a fukk about what anyone else thinks.
When you don't have to ask.
Not an insult but its true. An Alpha doesn't give a shyt about whether he's Alpha. He just knows it and doesn't give a fukk about what anyone else thinks.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
TheRisingSon
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Yep
ColdCoal has it best. You can tell when everyone feels a bit nervous around you, but they are still all smiles.
Being Alpha is overblown, btw. It's not needed. For anything.
I Have Risen
ColdCoal has it best. You can tell when everyone feels a bit nervous around you, but they are still all smiles.
Being Alpha is overblown, btw. It's not needed. For anything.
I Have Risen
I think that every man goes through times when he is the alpha and times when he isn't. Very few of us are the Alpha in every context.
Any guy that is a bit cool and hanges out with losers will be the Alpha. Does that make that guy a real man. NO it does not.
For example, the average guy could be the alpha if he went out with a bunch of fat girls.
So I would not concern yourself with being the Alpha. The reality is however, that you have to find it in yourself to compete with other guys if you want to attract hot women. Use your competitive nature to become stronger, but what ever you do don't compete with women - that doesn't mean anything
Women naturally go for the guy who appears to be the strongest and who appears to be in control.
For example, take a musician. For the most part these guys are just average looking and are not the strong jock types; however, give one of those guys a guitar and a stage and he will be the Alpha that night. He will be the center of attention at that night and the women will love him for it.
The point I want to make is to focus on those skills that you have that set you appart from other guys. Those are your strengths. You must learn when to use them and when not to. Just make damn sure however that your women see your strength.
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anyway, I just finished my thrid pint of Guiness and I'm going to bed.
Any guy that is a bit cool and hanges out with losers will be the Alpha. Does that make that guy a real man. NO it does not.
For example, the average guy could be the alpha if he went out with a bunch of fat girls.
So I would not concern yourself with being the Alpha. The reality is however, that you have to find it in yourself to compete with other guys if you want to attract hot women. Use your competitive nature to become stronger, but what ever you do don't compete with women - that doesn't mean anything
Women naturally go for the guy who appears to be the strongest and who appears to be in control.
For example, take a musician. For the most part these guys are just average looking and are not the strong jock types; however, give one of those guys a guitar and a stage and he will be the Alpha that night. He will be the center of attention at that night and the women will love him for it.
The point I want to make is to focus on those skills that you have that set you appart from other guys. Those are your strengths. You must learn when to use them and when not to. Just make damn sure however that your women see your strength.
....
anyway, I just finished my thrid pint of Guiness and I'm going to bed.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Alpha is the guy who people look at and are kinda afraid to approach. They see you as a successful motherfvcker and want to hate you...but after a few seconds they realize they just can't hate you. And alpha is...
me.
me.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
When you don't post questions like this - and you don't give a fvck who's alpha. Fvck - you don't even know the term "alpha male" exists....
Your not influenced and you don't give a sh#t.
Your not influenced and you don't give a sh#t.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
DDKevin got it right, eventhough he is a drunkard.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.